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3 Common Stereotypes about Erotic Humiliation
A lot of folks who might be curious about erotic humiliation avoid exploring it because, more than just about any other aspect of BDSM, it’s tied up in a long list of negative stereotypes about both the behavior and the people who engage in it. If these stereotypes have stopped you from exploring your…
ProDom Playbook: A Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs – Now Available!
In this day and age of industry oversaturation, every erotic entrepreneur needs a cohesive brand in order to be successful and memorable. But what does that mean, exactly, and how do you leverage your brand to turn your ideal audience into loyal clients and customers? In THE PRODOM PLAYBOOK, Princess Kali walks new and veteran…
What’s Your “Kernel Kink”?
Kink is all about feelings—or, more specifically, seeking out and creating certain feelings for ourselves and our partners. Why do we want someone to whip us and call us dirty names? Why do we want to “force” our (enthusiastically willing) submissive to drink our piss and call us mistress? Why do we want to do…
The 4 C’s of a Successful Scene
Hey, people who are new to exploring kink and sexuality! An important thing to remember as you’re starting out is that the hottest experiences can take a little time to build. No one is going to be your perfect Dom or sub from the start. Here are the 4 C’s of a successful…
Inspiration for Every Fancy: 15 Types of Erotic Humiliation Play
Erotic humiliation is a huge umbrella kink, and there are nearly as many ways to customize play as there are players. In my book, Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, I take a deep dive into fifteen different types of erotic humiliation play. Here, I’m giving you the basic highlights of each—just enough…
What IS Erotic Humiliation, Anyway?
Of all the kinks to be found in the world (and believe me, they are limitless), erotic humiliation is one of the most mysterious and least understood, among new and veteran kinksters alike. As a former professional dominatrix who’s also spent more than twenty years as a lifestyle domme and kink educator with a special…
Enough To Make You Blush: Updated Edition – Now Available!
I’m thrilled to announce that the updated and expanded edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation is now available! It’s almost incomprehensible to me that seven years have passed since I published the first edition of this book in 2015; it feels like both an eternity and an instant. During all that…
Interested in Exploring Financial Domination… But Hate the Conventional Approach?
When you hear the words “financial domination,” what comes to mind? Likely, it’s the stereotypical, humiliation-focused variety, in which a dominant looks down their nose at the sub, demeaning and degrading them as a loser who’s good for nothing but coughing up the cash-no more than a walking wallet or a human ATM. For some…
How (& Why) I Make My FinDom Humiliation Intensive as Accessible as I Can
Two of my staunchest beliefs about the work I do often stand in complete contrast to one another: First, that high quality educational resources should be accessible to everyone looking to earn a living as a sex worker. This industry is incredibly polarized in terms of financial success. One one end of the spectrum, there…
Want to be quoted in the updated edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation?
Have you heard the epic news?! I’m currently working on an updated and expanded edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and am launching a new survey to build on the data and quotes gathered the last time around. I’m very interested in your experience! Psychological play is so complex, and I’d…
Enough to Make You Blush: Updated and Expanded Edition Coming Soon!
Since I published the first edition of Enough to Make You Blush in 2015, I have been incredibly honored by the response over the years. This book has transformed my passion into a driving purpose and, more importantly, helped countless readers feel seen and understood — often for the very first time. That’s why I’m…
365 Days of Kink: A Journal of Self-Discovery – Now Available!
365 Days of Kink: A Journal of Self-Discovery This journal is a place to brainstorm, focus your fantasies, and record your experiences. The questions and prompts will help you delve into and articulate your beliefs about sex, kink, gender, and relationships. There’s something in here for everyone, whether you are a beginner or a long-time…
Superstar Branding for Sex Educators
Are you a current or aspiring sex, kink, or relationship presenter? Do you feel confused by how to set yourself apart in the growing adult sex-education industry? Do you feel that you’re struggling to communicate your expertise in a way that actually gets you booked for classes or makes you any money? The adult sex-ed…
Making Bank: A Budget Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs
For many years, Princess Kali approached the money she made from her career in sex work with an “easy come, easy go” attitude. There was always enough, and there was always more on the way. But as her money goals grew beyond impulsive daily desires and monthly rent, she realized she needed to shift her…
Red Key Club: Creating a Client Retention Strategy (Virtual Class)
Creating a Client Retention Strategy May 2, 2020 10am to 12pm PDT If you’re looking to build a sustainable business, then having a client retention strategy is critical. It’s tough to be successful if you’re constantly hustling for new applicants. This isn’t about being sneaky, or sleazy, or stringing clients along. Ethical business practices…
Free Virtual ProDomme Class – Defining Your Ideal Client
Free Virtual Class The ProDomme Playbook: Define Your Ideal Client Profile (also appropriate for PSOs, Cam Models, and other SWs) This is a scary time for many of us, and it’s important to take care of both our physical health and our emotional health right now. If you need to take this time to rest,…
Free Virtual Prodomme Class – Branding & Marketing
The ProDomme Playbook: Branding and Marketing for ProDommes (also appropriate for PSOs, Cam Models, and other SWs) This is a scary time for many of us, and it’s important to take care of both our physical health and our emotional health right now. If you need to take this time to rest, you can…
The Yes, No, Maybe Workbook is Now Available!
Hey there, fellow explorers of intimacy and self-discovery! Let me introduce you to a game-changer in the world of relationships and personal growth – “The Yes No Maybe Workbook: A Guide to Sexual Boundaries, Communication, and Fulfillment.” If you’ve ever found yourself fumbling for words or struggling to express your needs and desires in the…
Authentic Kink: Create Your Best Experience
Kinksters often have to depend on erotica and porn to learn what kink looks and feels like, but unfortunately that can create a lot of myths, misunderstandings, and accidental mistakes. BDSM is focused on activities, but just going through the motions won’t guarantee you’ll have a happy, healthy experience. It can take years (and plenty…
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Stormy
Thank you for a great class last night. I identify as a submissive and found the insights into the Dominants views very helpful. I feel I walked away with new tools to help with better communication and understanding in my relationships.
Ms Mode
Thank you for your class at IMsL, I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'd never been to a Humiliation/Degradation class before, so I really learned a lot. The most interesting part was learning about different levels/intensities of play in the spectrum, and all the options that were available.
Cricket