financial domination intensive

Are you ready to discover a whole new approach to enjoying financial fetish?

Do you believe that ethics and money kink are not mutually exclusive?

Interested in attending the next two-day FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive?

July 27-28, 2024

Fill out the application form to be the first to receive event announcements!

Unlock your money-kink confidence. Keep your principles and the presents!

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To this day, financial fetish and domination is one of the most misunderstood power play experiences, even by those who practice it. Like any expression of power, it has the potential for abuse and has gotten a rather bad rap because of the exploitation possibilities.

Discover a deeper understanding of the intersection of money, kink, and control with world-renowned expert and author, Princess Kali.

Spend two days in a fully immersive workshop diving into the whys and hows of ethical financial domination.

Transform your professional approach to financial domination with personalized insight, an environment of encouragement and support, and the opportunity to develop an authentic, ethical approach to exploring financial fetish with your clients and submissives.

With the two-day FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive, you’ll turn doubt and confusion into confidence and understanding when it comes to incorporating financial play into your unique brand in a way that appeals to your unique clients.

This event is designed for ProDommes, Cam Models, Phone Sex Operators,
and other erotic professionals only.

Very Limited Space — to ensure a well-curated experience for everyone attending, approval is required before purchasing your seat.

Fantastic. Great information, very engaging presentation of the information, and the perfect amount of group engagement as well. Literally the perfect online workshop.

Dida Fox

Dida Fox

What is the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive?

The FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive is a two-day, interactive, virtual intensive that’s designed to give erotic professionals a framework to implement creative, authentic, ethical financial fetish in your work.

This program is for you if...

You’ve never explored financial play with your clients because you assume it’s sleazy or you just don’t know where to start.

You’ve dabbled with financial play and love it when your clients give you gifts, but you aren’t sure how to cultivate and orchestrate the tribute process.

You’re experienced with financial play and want to solidify your philosophy and enhance your ethical understanding of this taboo erotic expression.

This event is designed for FinDoms, ProDoms, Cam Models, Phone Sex Operators, and other erotic professionals of any experience level. Must be verifiably part of the industry.

I feel like my entire perception of being a Domina has been altered for the better with this workshop. Not just by the in-depth dissection of Financial Dominance, but also with the gentle encouragement to reexamine all of my long held beliefs about money and abundance. The time on Zoom listening to Princess Kali speak was time well spent.

martine phoenix

Martine Phoenix

Here’s a peek at what we’ll be covering.

Kali will share information and inspiration that will give you a framework for healthy, informed play along with concrete suggestions for integrating the FinDom Philosophy into your money-kink play. Kali will use a visual slide deck along with storytelling, small group discussions, fun worksheets, and stretching exercises to keep you engaged while giving you concrete and actionable advice that you can immediately apply to your kinky career.

In this virtual intensive we’ll be exploring the following topics:

Day 1

Foundation and Ethics

  • Why being “ethical” isn’t the same as being “nice”
  • The difference between financial fetish and money kink and how sometimes language can illuminate or restrict
  • Stereotypes and myths that are commonly associated with erotic financial play
  • The difference between exploring financial domination in lifestyle and professional relationships
  • What the responsibilities are of both the submissive and the dominant

Psychology and Archetypes

  • The psychology behind the desire for financial domination and financial submission
  • Techniques for recognizing and addressing compulsive behaviors in your clients
  • How to discover your own and your client’s individual motivations
  • Nontraditional examples of how changing your energy changes the style of play
  • The nine finsub archetypes that help you target the language, play style, and mechanisms you use in your money kink play.

Day 2

Safety and Negotiation

  • The Risk Tolerance Spectrum
  • Physical and financial safety tips
  • Red flags and green flags in potential finsubs
  • Multiple techniques for negotiation, including specific questions

Scene Building and Play

  • The four categories of financial domination
  • How to create a healthy cycle of spending and tributes
  • How to adapt money-kink to personalized desires and limits
  • Different types of financial domination to fit a variety of styles,  professional brands, and client characteristics

Bonus! (Optional Events)

Pre-Intensive Networking and Social

Other than the thoughtful content, one of the most valuable aspects of the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive is the industry connections you can make. Maximize your networking by joining us for an optional pre-intensive social, with 90 minutes of "speed networking" to get to know the other attendees.

Money Kink Mindset - Group Coaching

It can feel overwhelming to put everything you learn into practice, so to help you truly integrate the information into your brand and business, I’ve added two additional group coaching sessions after the intensive. 

You’re welcome to attend one, both, or neither of these meetings!

Benefits of attending the Money Kink Mindset groups:

  • More time to talk to Kali and to ask her questions about the content
  • Further integrative study and support for understanding the content
  • Peer support and networking with colleagues 
  • Brainstorming action steps and providing supportive accountability
  • Celebration of successes

You have absolutely crushed my imposter syndrome. I didn't have the structure to my thinking that you provided, but already understood a fair bit of the content intuitively or in other contexts. You gave me the framework to consciously actualize it and expand on it, though, and for that I am enormously grateful. I can immediately turn your course content into money. It was worth every penny.

Katherine Control

Katherine Control

Meet Princess Kali

Princess Kali has spent more than twenty years exploring not only the how but the why of taboo erotic desires.

During Kali's experience working as a successful professional dominatrix, she naturally integrated ethical financial domination into her client relationships and cultivated many personally collared submissives who found joy in financial servitude.

Common misconceptions about financial domination often contribute to the abuse that both kinksters and vanilla folks associate with money-kink. As an educator and proud FinDom, Kali is passionate about helping consenting adults participate in financial fetish play more safely and enjoyably.

Her dynamic and engaging style of presenting has been welcomed at more than 150 venues, including kink events such as Dark Odyssey, Fetish Fair Fleamarket, Kink in the Caribbean, and IMsL, as well as mainstream venues such as Harvard University and SXSW.

As the founder of, she is a pioneer of the “kinktrepreneur” business model, creating sites such as Kink Academy  and Fearless Press for easy access to adult sex and BDSM education. Most recently, she launched the Red Key Club, a business and marketing school for sex workers.

She’s also the author of eight kink focused books: Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and companion workbook; Behind the Blush, Authentic Kink; 365 Days of Kink Journal; The Yes, No, Maybe Workbook; and Making Bank: A Money Management Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs, along with the recently released ProDom Playbook.

Her work continues to inspire and support many other SWers, kink educators, writers, and enthusiasts.


Main Event Details

July 27-28, 2024

Day 1

  • 10am* - 1pm: Foundation and Ethics
  • 1pm - 2pm: Meal Break
  • 2pm - 5pm: Psychology and Archetypes

*Pacific Time

Day 2

  • 10am* - 1pm: Negotiation and Play
  • 1pm - 2pm: Meal Break
  • 2pm - 4pm: Q&A

*Pacific Time

We’ll start each day in our private Zoom room with everyone’s camera on to check in, then during the class all attendees will have their video and audio turned off. Each three-hour workshop will include a full content presentation followed by a quick stretch break before splitting up into small groups for discussion and then a review with the whole class.

For erotic professionals only; must be verifiably in the industry.
No clients or submissives allowed at this event.

The intensive was absolutely amazing! Connecting with my community was one of the best parts, next to the literal gold mine of information and knowledge Kali shares. It was an extremely validating experience overall. I learned so much and will definitely be able to turn this into cash!

Adela Divine

Adela Divine


Seats in the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive are limited, and due to overwhelming interest, they’re likely to go quickly. Apply to reserve your spot today.

Payment plan is available.

Regular Registration



Register before June 30th to save 20%

Payment plan available

I loved this intensive and am so glad I took it! Truth be told, I was hesitant about it in the days leading up to it because I was worried it might not be worth the investment but I can confidently say it was 1000% worth it! The intensive is incredibly well structured and the amount of information covered in 2 days was really inspiring. I feel like I have the tools I need (and then some) to implement these teachings into my work. Now I have a much better understanding of the kinds of finsubs I want to attract and I feel like I have the tools I need to start looking for these kinds of clients.

Violetta Vos

Absolutely I would recommend this intensive, a thousand times over! It's worth every bit and more. I will vouch for Kali again and again in this industry because what she provided was nothing like anything I'd ever received in the education realm of this community. Kali is passionate and extremely well versed in all she does. Her incredible work ethic shows!

Goddess Slayer

Goddess Slayer

Have more questions? Here are more answers!

What is the location of this intensive?

The FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive will be conducted entirely online, hosted in a private Zoom room.

Who is this for? Can anyone sign up?

This event is for erotic professionals only. ProDoms, Cam Models, and PSO’s of all experience levels are all welcome. Clients and submissives are not allowed at this event.

The FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive is a highly curated event to ensure the best experience for everyone who attends.

What’s the intensive like?

A fun, deep-dive into understanding financial fetish play! The days are full of concretely useful information, group discussion, engaging storytelling and more. We take stretch breaks to keep you moving; you’ll be surprised at how fast the time goes.

What if I’ve already attended your shorter financial domination class?

The ninety-minute or two-hour classes* Kali teaches online and at conferences barely scratch the surface of the depth and breadth of topics under the money-kink umbrella. In the short format, there is little time for Kali to answer questions or share any kind of personalized info.

Kali has developed a whole new level of content for this event, and with the two-day intensive format, we’ll have significantly more time to get to the kernel of what you need to have successful, ethical, and profitable experiences.

*If you attended a previous intensive, please contact Kali for special alumni information.

What if I can't afford the intensive?

I offer a limited number of needs-based scholarships, both full and partial, which depend on the number of paid spots sold.

I'll be teaching my two-hour Intro to Ethical Financial Domination class in June. The class will give you an excellent overview of the concepts, including the Authentic FinDom Framework and the FinDom Play Matrix. Follow me on Eventbrite to receive class announcements.

What should I wear? Should I bring anything?

The day is educational, so there is no need to dress in fetish fashion. Wear comfortable clothing, and since you’re at home, shoes are optional! Feel free to keep any special snacks or items you need to be comfortable at your fingertips. We’ll be taking breaks frequently, but of course, you’re welcome to take a break whenever you need.

Is there a payment plan?

Yes! Once you are approved to attend, you are welcome to pay in one two, or three installments (depending on when you register, the earlier you sign up, the longer you have to split up the payments). There is NO additional fee for choosing the payment plan.  The final installment will be due fourteen days prior to the event.

What will I get out of this?

Excellent question! This is definitely a case for the old saying, “You’ll get out what you put in.” If you fully participate — approach the discussions with openness and bring your most curious self to the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive — you can make dramatic growth in your professional life. Then you have to apply what you learn!

Everyone benefits differently, but regardless, you will walk away with practical, innovative, and fun techniques to better understand your clients financial fetish desires and create more authentic money-kink play.

Are refunds available?

A refund (minus a $350 deposit) is available until thirty days before the event. No refunds within thirty days of the event. Your ticket can potentially be transferred to another attendee (with Kali’s approval) up to seven days before the event.

Will you be doing this intensive again?

Yes, but it's nearly certain that I'll be skipping next year to focus on the creation of my erotic humiliation intensive. So it will be quite awhile until your next opportunity. Seize the day!


What have past attendees said about the experience?

"The intensive was a great investment and I already see how the knowledge of Kali infuse in my strategy. It was a very well managed training. I did different kinds of online trainings and this is one of my favourite because it was intense but quick. For me as a neurodivergent person it's easier to follow a well managed but packed 2 days intensive rather than a few hours a week every week for a month or else. Thank you for creating a space that was both efficient and mindful of neurodivergent needs."

Goddess Eff

Goddess Eff

"Princess Kali is a thoughtful educator with a passion for empowering sex workers to thrive. She breaks down the complexities of kink, especially financial domination, with ease."


Priestess Ava

"This class felt both affirming and inspirational. Princess Kali teaches things in a style that doesn't feel overwhelming, yet is jam-packed with the foundational ideas, themes, and framework that create a sustainable practice. Through this course, I was able to immediately identify places in my own career that were working well, which reassured my near-constant 'imposter syndrome', make a concrete plan to improve the things that weren't working so well, and get excited about future projects and ideas which had before felt a bit out-of-reach."


Miss Shayla

"Kali has an amazing talent and passion for teaching and educating. Her well thought out, finely developed classes and materials are evidence of all the hard work she puts into developing them."


Mx Luna Izel

"It was one of the most life-giving experiences I've ever had, professional or personal. The format was intense (duh!) but paced beautifully, even for me as someone with both autism & ADHD, and the workbook is a veritable treasure map and made it so much easier to relax and be present to the moment even as someone who will occasionally struggle with audio processing.

Everyone was professional, enthusiastic, open and welcoming, and Princess Kali's instructional style is super entertaining, relatable, *and* informative, which I loved. I learned so much about myself and the depth of the skill I already had, where I could grow, *and* the frameworks presented helped take all the life-sucking guessing games out of that process and formulating a vision for how I'd like to play with subs. I know I will absolutely make back my investment.

Additionally, as a Black femme, it was a breath of fresh air to be seen and to have my unique concerns and actual, material challenges discussed and addressed in a way that didn't feel dismissive, belittling, or unsafe.
If you're thinking of working with Princess Kali - for coaching, for classes, buying her books - absolutely DO. I have worked for myself for 10+ years and have been through all sorts of training, etc., and Princess Kali's work is easily the best I've encountered."


Lovela De'Verres

"It was very informative and also helped me gain more perspective on the different elements of FinDom that I didn't know before. I think that as a beginner at times I felt like I was trying to be someone I was not to fit into the stereotypes that I felt I should be. However, I learned that I should use my personality to control the energy and provide an authentic experience within that. I will keep that in mind when I approach certain archetypes."

Suki Yuki

Suki Yuki

"Princess Kali's Virtual Ethical FinDom Intensive was truly a revolutionary course to have enrolled in. I'm so grateful that I was able to be part of this educational, supportive, and entrepreneurial class. Approachable, knowledgeable, hilarious, and engaging, Kali is a delightful gem full of experience and sound advice. She can help any business-minded sex worker learn to up their game, build their community, and re-orient their branding to be as sustainable and authentic as possible. In addition to marketing, branding, business strategy, and digital privacy, Kali also cultivates how to preemptively and consciously combat bad client matches, resentment, and industry burnout. If you want to fall back in love with sex work again (or for the first time), take actionable steps to build your business, and learn how to re-ignite your joy - then this is the course for you."

Verona Invictus

Madam Verona Invictus

"It was really valuable to get to spend time in a small, consistent group with other pros who are diverse in their approach and experience. I'm always worried about group work of any kind, especially when the instructor determines the groups, because my experience is that people don't tend to pull their weight. These weren't that kind of group, to my relief. I appreciated that you structured our conversation and our groups. It really helped break the ice, provide focus, and ensure diversity of perspective. I felt very enriched by these discussions."

Katherine Control

Katherine Control

"Princess Kali is one of the most generous educatrices I have come across in my practice as a professional and lifestyle Domina. Her workshops are accessible, thoroughly researched, entertainingly presented and bursting with the mountain of practical knowledge and wry observations she has collected throughout her justly celebrated career. My own views and approaches to professional and personal domination have been greatly enriched by her and I can say nothing more except, Thank You, Princess!"

martine phoenix

Martine Phoenix

"It was really affirming to have myths exposed and learn about the different archetypes of finsubs/what to expect for each. Knowing these things will greatly assist in many forms of my business including content, live sessions, ideal client/finsub profile and more. I also really liked that it was for verified Pros only, with cam/headphones on for a sense of privacy. It felt safe and professional."


Princess Hime

"Princess Kali’s class on Ethical Financial Domination helped me understand the different dynamics of FinDom. The class had so much information! Princess Kali is great at breaking down information into subsections for easy understanding. Highly recommend this class."


Mrs. Sharpe

"Princess Kali is passionate about sharing education and it's this enthusiasm that shines through everything She does. Ethical Financial Domination is no different. The resources are well-considered, the conversations are juicy, there is ample time to discuss and digest - the perfect environment for lots of "Ah-Ha!" moments. This is not a one-size-fits-all how-to guide. It's a thoughtfully structured scaffold for you to grow and nurture your own practice in the way that best serves you, creating maximum enjoyment for you and your playthings.


As such it's reusable, revisitable, and infinitely practical. The value I received through this intensive will undoubtedly feed into other areas of My play for a long time to come."

Penelope Dreadful

Miss Penelope Dreadful

"I've been a part of Princess Kali's Red Key Club for months now, and I'm still digesting the webinars there, and I've also done most of her other online courses too. I did her two-hour Ethical FinDom workshop, and when she said she was holding an intensive, I was breaking down the Zoom door to sign up. The thing that I love about Kali's teaching style is that it is 'no bullshit'. I love education; in fact, it's almost kind of a fetish of mine, and there's nothing more annoying than paying to hear someone brag and aimlessly chat with participants. I want the meaty education, and that's what Kali delivers, every single time, and in a way that is approachable, fun, welcoming and incredibly supportive.

Not only does Kali create community in her classes but she also stays on point and over delivers, always. The Ethical FinDom intensive was indeed intense. It was jam packed full of all the amazing stuff that I really wanted to understand; the psychology, behaviors, archetypes, safety, protection, language, approaches, but more than that and something I've never seen before…ETHICS. I never thought I'd see those words put together in a sentence, and certainly not a class, but I'm so grateful that I did, and that was why I jumped straight in and signed up immediately."


Lavish Queen Muse

"I took the Ethical Financial Domination intensive with Princess Kali and had the opportunity to understand the different archetypes that apply to each financial submissive type. Going into these archetypes helped me develop content and adapt my approach to different types of finsubs. This gave me confidence, so that I can lean in more assertively when engaging with potential subs and the ones I already have established relationships with. I recommend this class to anyone who is thinking of bringing this aspect to their domination practice in an ethical and effective way."

Luna Leona

Lady Luna Leona

"The best thing was feeling empowered and motivated afterwards to update my website copy and decide what I want, and it allowed me to understand my own money story and how language affects feelings."



"I'm excited to use the frameworks so I can more successfully introduce kink (especially money kink) into my escort branding and sessions. I've been wanting to do this, but have felt challenged by doing it in a way that feels authentic and with integrity. Having Kali's frameworks will allow me to do that."

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Are you ready for a transformational experience?

The next FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive is happening July 27-28, 2024.

Don't miss out!