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your friendly neighborhood kink coach

Princess Kali is a dynamic educator, author, and coach that focuses
on power exchange, confidence and communication.


Kali is the author of five innovative books and workbooks, including the popular Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation. She has also created five decks of cards with surprisingly versatile uses, from negotiation to dirty talk.


Kali offers insightful solo and couples coaching sessions for lifestyle and professional kinksters. Get personalized, action-oriented advice to help you build the kinky life of your dreams.


Kali is an entertaining, informative, powerhouse speaker who instigates unexpected ah-ha moments for her audiences. She uses storytelling and humor to keep listeners engaged while giving them concrete and actionable advice.

meet princess kali

Kali has lived and breathed kink both personally and professionally for 20 years.

Where many sexual educators and coaches can explain the theory or the psychological factors of kink sexuality, Kali can speak to the practical side: she has explored and experienced every technique of the kink lifestyle herself.

Kali manages to embody two seemingly-contradictory traits as a sexuality educator: she is both tough love and enthusiastic cheerleader. She understands the inherent fears, desires, and uncertainties that come with kink sexuality, and she spends a great deal of time helping people become comfortable and confident with pushing their boundaries.

As the founder of Kali is a pioneer of the “kinktrepreneur” business model, creating sites such as Kink Academy, Passionate U, and Fearless Press for easy access to adult sex and BDSM education. Her work continues to inspire and support many other kink educators, writers, and enthusiasts. She’s also the author of 5 books; Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and Companion Workbook, Authentic Kink, 365 Days of Kink Journal, and The Yes, No, Maybe Workbook.


meta kink podcast

Kali is the founder of and the host of the MetaKink Podcast (coming in 2020).

Become a MetaKink supporter on Patreon to gain access to the live monthly panel discussion along with a chance to ask the experts your questions.

upcoming events

Kali teaches at both national and international events. In the coming months you can see her at:

+ Nightshade Sanctuary - San Francisco, CA - March 7th - Authentic Kink and How to Create and Maintain a Service Relationship

+ KinkFest - Portland, OR - April 10, 2020 through April 12, 2020

+ DomCon - Los Angeles, CA - May 6-11, 2020 - Enough To Make You Blush: Intro to Erotic Humiliation

+ Dark Odyssey Fusion - Northern Maryland - June 23-29, 2020 - TBD


Princess Kali is always a funny, engaging speaker. Many people can do that. But what makes Princess Kali most valuable, and such a resource to the community, is the many, many ways she looks at a problem. She'll work with you to quantify or qualify what is exactly the problem, and then suggest ways that you can fix it. She inspired me to figure out how to fit M/s into my day, everyday, and it has been life changing.


Kali is a fantastic educator.  Not only is she a talented speaker with a great sense of humor, but she's also a presenter who gives her audience exactly what they want: insightful, practical advice that they can put to immediate use.


Princess Kali is an awesome presenter, she makes her points clear and concise and retouches over everything as she goes that allows for her points to sink in and stay vivid. Being in her class at FFF#38 was a pleasure, she handled all questions in a concise manner, without allowing them to sidetrack the main points of the class, and really made the material strike home to those in the class like myself.


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