your friendly neighborhood kink coach

Princess Kali is a dynamic educator, author, and coach that focuses
on power exchange, confidence and communication.


Kali is the author of five innovative books and workbooks, including the popular Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation. She has also created five decks of cards with surprisingly versatile uses, from negotiation to dirty talk.


Kali offers insightful solo and couples coaching sessions for lifestyle and professional kinksters. Get personalized, action-oriented advice to help you build the kinky life of your dreams.


Kali is an entertaining, informative, powerhouse speaker who instigates unexpected ah-ha moments for her audiences. She uses storytelling and humor to keep listeners engaged while giving them concrete and actionable advice.

meet princess kali

Kali has lived and breathed kink both personally and professionally for 20 years.

Where many sexual educators and coaches can explain the theory or the psychological factors of kink sexuality, Kali can speak to the practical side: she has explored and experienced every technique of the kink lifestyle herself.

Kali manages to embody two seemingly-contradictory traits as a sexuality educator: she is both tough love and enthusiastic cheerleader. She understands the inherent fears, desires, and uncertainties that come with kink sexuality, and she spends a great deal of time helping people become comfortable and confident with pushing their boundaries.

As the founder of Kali is a pioneer of the “kinktrepreneur” business model, creating sites such as Kink Academy, Passionate U, and Fearless Press for easy access to adult sex and BDSM education. Her work continues to inspire and support many other kink educators, writers, and enthusiasts. She’s also the author of 5 books; Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and Companion Workbook, Authentic Kink, 365 Days of Kink Journal, and The Yes, No, Maybe Workbook.

Princess Kali MetaKink

meta kink podcast

Kali is the founder of and the host of the MetaKink Podcast.

Become a MetaKink supporter on Patreon to gain access to the live monthly discussion along with a chance to ask the experts your questions.

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Red Key Club

Kali's most recent project is The Red Key Club, a limited-time business and marketing school for prodommes, cam models, PSO's, and other sex workers.

Become a Red Key Club supporter on Patreon to gain access to monthly classes and office hours (both live and recorded), with the Gold Tier you'll also have access to the Guest Expert series with a chance to ask the experts your questions.

Upcoming Classes + Discussions:

+ June 11th at 10am PDT - - Increasing Credibility Through Writing + Teaching

+ June 25th at 10am PDT - Superstar Branding for Sex Educators

+ June 19th at 12pm PDT - Money Management for Sex Workers: Budgeting + Bookkeeping (Guest Expert Series - Gold Tier access required)

upcoming events

Kali is an experienced and dynamic educator, who's style translates brilliantly to virtual classes. 


+ Wicked Grounds Online Annex - The Dragon-tail: The Most Versatile Tool in Your Toy Bag! - July 20th at 6pm (registration available soon)


Princess Kali is always a funny, engaging speaker. Many people can do that. But what makes Princess Kali most valuable, and such a resource to the community, is the many, many ways she looks at a problem. She'll work with you to quantify or qualify what is exactly the problem, and then suggest ways that you can fix it. She inspired me to figure out how to fit M/s into my day, everyday, and it has been life changing.


Kali is a fantastic educator.  Not only is she a talented speaker with a great sense of humor, but she's also a presenter who gives her audience exactly what they want: insightful, practical advice that they can put to immediate use.


Princess Kali is an awesome presenter, she makes her points clear and concise and retouches over everything as she goes that allows for her points to sink in and stay vivid. Being in her class at FFF#38 was a pleasure, she handled all questions in a concise manner, without allowing them to sidetrack the main points of the class, and really made the material strike home to those in the class like myself.


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