your friendly neighborhood kink coach

Princess Kali is a dynamic educator, author, and coach that focuses
on power exchange, confidence and communication.


Kali is the author of thirteen innovative books and workbooks, including the popular Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation. She has also created eight decks of cards with surprisingly versatile uses, from negotiation to dirty talk.


Kali offers insightful solo and couples coaching sessions for lifestyle and professional kinksters. Get personalized, action-oriented advice to help you build the kinky life of your dreams.


Kali is an entertaining, informative, powerhouse speaker who instigates unexpected ah-ha moments for her audiences. She uses storytelling and humor to keep listeners engaged while giving them concrete and actionable advice.

meet princess kali

Kali has lived and breathed kink both personally and professionally for more than twenty years.

She is deeply engaged in exploring the whys and hows of erotic humiliation, financial domination, and other misunderstood forms of kink play.

One of the kink community’s premier speakers and entrepreneurs, Kali is the founder of and Red Key Club. She has also written thirteen books and workbooks including Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation.

Kali is a member of the CARAS Research Advisory Committee, and in 2022 was inducted into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame.

Where many sexual educators and coaches can explain the theory or the psychological factors of kink sexuality, Kali can speak to the practical side: she has explored and experienced every technique of the kink lifestyle herself.

Kali manages to embody two seemingly-contradictory traits as a sexuality educator: she is both tough love and enthusiastic cheerleader. She understands the inherent fears, desires, and uncertainties that come with kink sexuality, and she spends a great deal of time helping people become comfortable and confident with pushing their boundaries.

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Red Key Club

Kali's most recent project is The Red Key Club, an industry-only business and marketing school for prodommes, cam models, PSO's, and other erotic entrepreneurs.

Become a Red Key Club supporter on Patreon to gain access to over 50 hours of recordings, including classes, interviews, and Q&A sessions along with monthly virtual networking opportunities.

Kali is an experienced and dynamic educator whose style translates brilliantly to virtual classes.

  • Humiliation Scene Building - October 2024 (TBD)

Princess Kali is always a funny, engaging speaker. Many people can do that. But what makes Princess Kali most valuable, and such a resource to the community, is the many, many ways she looks at a problem. She'll work with you to quantify or qualify what is exactly the problem, and then suggest ways that you can fix it. She inspired me to figure out how to fit M/s into my day, everyday, and it has been life changing.


Kali is a fantastic educator.  Not only is she a talented speaker with a great sense of humor, but she's also a presenter who gives her audience exactly what they want: insightful, practical advice that they can put to immediate use.


Princess Kali is an awesome presenter, she makes her points clear and concise and retouches over everything as she goes that allows for her points to sink in and stay vivid. Being in her class at FFF#38 was a pleasure, she handled all questions in a concise manner, without allowing them to sidetrack the main points of the class, and really made the material strike home to those in the class like myself.


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