How to Celebrate National Erotic Humiliation Day

I can’t believe 2025 will be the 10th Annual National Erotic Humiliation Day! Time flies when you’re being pervy.

Every year on the last Saturday of October (it will be Saturday, October 25th) we celebrate all of our dirty desires and share them with the world to honor a deeply misunderstood fetish: psychological torment and teasing, or erotic humiliation.

The term “erotic humiliation” covers a broad spectrum of interests of levels of play (you can learn more about it in my book, Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation) and even in the kinky world, people often mistake it for “being mean” which isn’t the case at all.

Consensual humiliation play can take many forms and doesn’t always have to be of the hardcore degradation variety (though that’s fun for those who enjoy it!). This holiday is meant to inspire and connect those who want to explore humiliation on their kinky adventures.

Ways to Celebrate

  • Post your own photos on X, Instagram, Fetlife, OnlyFans, and more—see below for suggestions
  • Confess your humiliation-themed fantasies & share your experiences—Dominants AND submissives, I’m looking at you!
  • Host a humiliation-themed play party! Do you have a local dungeon or group of kinky friends from your favorite munch? Invite them over to play Humiliation Truth or Dare (or the recently released Sissy Edition Truth or Dare) and enjoy some mutual exhibitionism and voyeurism as you watch each other's scenes.
  • Do you have a blog? Write a post about a humiliation-themed topic (see below for suggestions!) and let me know so I can share it in a blog round-up post here on my site (post in the comments too).
  • Buy my book ‘Enough To Make You Blush’ this week to read & get ideas (yes, this is a shameless plug!) You can get it on Kindle for immediate download, or order it from me for an autographed copy. The book also makes a great gift!

Make sure you use the hashtag #HumiliationDay on social media so we can all share in the kinky goodness! Maybe you’ll be inspired .…

Themes for Photos, Confessions & Articles

  •  Verbal Humiliation and Degradation
  •  Foot Fetish
  •  Objectification
  •  Being Turned into Furniture
  •  Dehumanization
  •  Sex & Masturbation
  •  Chastity & Orgasm Control
  •  Messy Food Play
  •  Sissification
  •  Nudity
  •  Bodily Functions
  •  Domestic Service & Cleaning
  •  Punishment & Protocol
  •  Playing in Public
  •  Financial Domination

I’m so looking forward to seeing your kinky creativity and I’m certain you dirty pervs can come up with even more ideas too!

 

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