Resources and Recommendations
Ethical Financial Domination: Virtual Intensive April 29-30, 2023 This event is industry-only and has limited spots to ensure a well curated, quality experience. You can read more about it and apply here, make sure you mention attending the intro class on the application form so I can make note of the Introduction Class registration cost…Read More
Inspiration for Every Fancy: 15 Types of Erotic Humiliation Play
Erotic humiliation is a huge umbrella kink, and there are nearly as many ways to customize play as there are players. In my book, Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, I take a deep dive into fifteen different types of erotic humiliation play. Here, I’m giving you the basic highlights of each—just enough…Read More
What IS Erotic Humiliation, Anyway?
Of all the kinks to be found in the world (and believe me, they are limitless), erotic humiliation is one of the most mysterious and least understood, among new and veteran kinksters alike. As a former professional dominatrix who’s also spent more than twenty years as a lifestyle domme and kink educator with a special…Read More
Interested in Exploring Financial Domination… But Hate the Conventional Approach?
When you hear the words “financial domination,” what comes to mind? Likely, it’s the stereotypical, humiliation-focused variety, in which a dominant looks down their nose at the sub, demeaning and degrading them as a loser who’s good for nothing but coughing up the cash—no more than a walking wallet or a human ATM. For some…Read More
How (& Why) I Make My Financial Domination Intensive as Accessible as I Can
Two of my staunchest beliefs about the work I do often stand in complete contrast to one another: First, that high quality educational resources should be accessible to everyone looking to earn a living as a sex worker. This industry is incredibly polarized in terms of financial success. One one end of the spectrum, there…Read More
Want to be quoted in the updated edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation?
Have you heard the epic news?! I’m currently working on an updated and expanded edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and am launching a new survey to build on the data and quotes gathered the last time around. I’m very interested in your experience! Psychological play is so complex, and I’d like…Read More
Enough to Make You Blush: Updated and Expanded Edition Coming Soon!
Since I published the first edition of Enough to Make You Blush in 2015, I have been incredibly honored by the response over the years. This book has transformed my passion into a driving purpose and, more importantly, helped countless readers feel seen and understood — often for the very first time. That’s why I’m…Read More
Superstar Branding for Sex Educators
Are you a current or aspiring sex, kink, or relationship presenter? Do you feel confused by how to set yourself apart in the growing adult sex-education industry? Do you feel that you’re struggling to communicate your expertise in a way that actually gets you booked for classes or makes you any money? The adult sex-ed…Read More
Is Ethical Financial Domination Even Possible?
Recently I received this message in my Fetlife inbox. “Is Ethical Financial Domination even possible?” I’m always a bit surprised to hear this from fellow kinksters, though I shouldn’t be. Can’t that question be applied to everything we do? “Is ethical [your favorite kink here] even possible? Someone who doesn’t understand how consent and context is critically…Read More
Making Bank: A Budget Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs
For many years, Princess Kali approached the money she made from her career in sex work with an “easy come, easy go” attitude. There was always enough, and there was always more on the way. But as her money goals grew beyond impulsive daily desires and monthly rent, she realized she needed to shift her…Read More