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From Burnout to Bliss: How to Handle the Ups and Downs in a Long-term Power Exchange Relationship
Power exchange (PE) relationships can be uniquely fulfilling, offering a blend of trust, intimacy, and excitement that many kinksters crave. However, like any relationship, a power exchange dynamic comes with its own set of challenges. While every relationship is different, there are some common struggles that many people in long-term D/s dynamics face. Here are…
Read MoreHow to Use Kink Books to Improve Your Practice
If you’re looking to deepen your understanding of kink and BDSM, reading books by kink experts can be a fantastic way to learn. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, there’s always something new to explore. Here are some tips on how to use kink books to enhance your practice and knowledge.…
Read MoreFinDom Fumbles: The Top 3 Errors New Doms Make
So, you’ve decided to dip your toes into the fascinating world of financial domination! Maybe you’ve heard stories of expensive gifts, loyal submissives, or waking up to a surprise $1,000 tribute. Maybe you’re enticed by the allure of being in control of someone else’s finances (who could blame you?). But before you dive headfirst into…
Read MoreFindom Debt Contracts: The Allure of Erotic Paperwork
The allure of financial domination lies in the exhilarating power dynamics it cultivates, and at the heart of this dynamic lies the commitment of a debt contract—a potent symbol of submission and devotion that sets pulses racing in the world of findom. For findoms (financial dominants), the seductive appeal of a debt contract lies not…
Read MoreDominant Led, Submissive Driven: Navigating Challenges in Female-Led Relationships
In the world of female-led, male submissive relationships (FLRs), the dynamic of a female dominant (also known as a femdom) and a male submissive can create a unique and fulfilling bond. However, one common challenge often arises: the femdom feeling overwhelmed and obligated to manage everything while the submissive waits passively, leading to frustration on…
Read MoreElevate Your Findom Confidence with the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive
Hey there! If you’ve ever dipped your toes into the world of financial domination (findom), you know it can be both exhilarating and daunting. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, building and sustaining confidence and a genuine understanding is crucial for success and enjoyment in this unique kink. That’s where my intensive comes…
Read MoreFinding the Filthy Words That Are Music To Your Ears: Verbal Erotic Humiliation
Exploring the realms of dirty talk and filthy words can be an exhilarating journey, especially when delving into consensual erotic humiliation play scenes. Verbal Erotic Humiliation Is a Powerful Tool One of the most thrilling aspects of humiliation kink is the exploration of language. Words, when wielded with intention, have the power to electrify the…
Read More27 Times To Send To Your Favorite FinDom
In the fabulous world of financial domination, sending money to your favorite findom is more than just a transaction—it’s a way to show loyalty, devotion, appreciation, adoration, respect, and so much more. Financial tributes and gifts carry a lot of meaning, transforming ordinary moments into powerful statements of submission and connection. This isn’t just about…
Read MoreCreating Female Led Relationship Rules That Work
For many years, all of my submissives were required to greet me properly. This meant requesting permission, kneeling at my feet, and kissing my feet three times. Rules like this immediately re-immerse you both into your chosen roles in a female-led relationship or other Dominant/submissive dynamic. Female-led relationships (FLRs) are unique and empowering dynamics where…
Read MoreAnnouncing the First Annual International FinDom Day
As a long time findomme and financial domination enthusiast, I’ve decided that we money kinksters need a holiday to celebrate our kink. Since I created National Erotic Humiliation Day in 2016, it’s been a delight to join my fellow humiliation fetishists in celebrating our shared proclivities. Shedding light on erotic humiliation feels especially meaningful since…
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