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Free Virtual Class for ProDommes – Defining Your Ideal Client

Free Virtual Class The ProDomme Playbook: Define Your Ideal Client Profile (also appropriate for PSOs, Cam Models, and other SWs) This is a scary time for many of us, and it’s important to take care of both our physical health and our emotional health right now. If you need to take this time to rest,…

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Free Virtual Class – Branding & Marketing for ProDommes 

The ProDomme Playbook: Branding and Marketing for ProDommes  (also appropriate for PSOs, Cam Models, and other SWs)   This is a scary time for many of us, and it’s important to take care of both our physical health and our emotional health right now. If you need to take this time to rest, you can…

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Coming Soon: The ProDomme Playbook

I’ve been working on my next interactive kink book with a plan to launch it in June, but thanks to the recent world-wide turn of events, I know a lot of folks in the fetish industry are trying to figure out their next steps. So I’m hustling to get it finished as soon as possible…

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Can you teach submission?

One of the reasons I love twitter is the ability to have conversation with people around the world and get inspired by what others are experiencing and talking about. So when Domina Dynasty posed this question on twitter, I was intrigued… Can you teach someone to be submissive? It’s a really interesting question and like…

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Living in a Post 50 Shades World

In 2011, three unassuming fan fiction books were published, and before long the world had collectively lost its mind.   By 2012, over 20 million copies of the books had been sold and the mainstream world was suddenly aware of kink in a brand new way.  BDSM was being discussed and debated on every morning…

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6 Steps to a More Fulfilling Sex Life

These ideas are meant to be simple(ish) and free (of financial need). But that doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy or that it isn’t going to take any investment. It will be an investment of time, and you may find that doing the simplest thing may be more difficult that you first imagined. But…

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On experts, professionals and players…

Reverend Danny Smite posted this open letter today in response to an interview with professional Humiliatrix Ceara Lynch on The Joe Rogan Experience podcast. Here are my thoughts…. Not everyone who does kink professionally feels connected to the activities on a personal level and that’s ok. I don’t think Ceara has ever identified herself as…

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Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation – Available for sale!

Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation is ready and available for sale! I am so proud of this book and I hope you enjoy it. Inside it you’ll find: The difference between embarrassment, humiliation & degradation Why kinksters enjoy consensual psychological torment Tips for communicating your desires for both dominants & submissives The…

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It’s almost ready! – a book about Erotic Humiliation

Writing a book is a really involved project. The seedling of an idea gets planted and then years may go by as you think, collect notes and brainstorm ideas to share. In my case, nearly 10 years have gone by as I’ve presented this topic dozens of times at different kink events across the country.…

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A few kinky shopping tips!

Q: I’m just starting to explore my kinks & fetishes, what should I purchase before I really know what I like? A: Start with the ‘vanilla’ items that resemble kink items such as a wooden spoon for a paddle, scarves or neckties for bondage (be sure to keep safety scissors handy to cut them off…

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