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Making Bank: A Budget Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs
For many years, Princess Kali approached the money she made from her career in sex work with an “easy come, easy go” attitude. There was always enough, and there was always more on the way. But as her money goals grew beyond impulsive daily desires and monthly rent, she realized she needed to shift her…
Read MoreRed Key Club: Creating a Client Retention Strategy (Virtual Class)
Creating a Client Retention Strategy May 2, 2020 10am to 12pm PDT If you’re looking to build a sustainable business, then having a client retention strategy is critical. It’s tough to be successful if you’re constantly hustling for new applicants. This isn’t about being sneaky, or sleazy, or stringing clients along. Ethical business practices…
Read MoreFree Virtual Class for ProDommes – Defining Your Ideal Client
Free Virtual Class The ProDomme Playbook: Define Your Ideal Client Profile (also appropriate for PSOs, Cam Models, and other SWs) This is a scary time for many of us, and it’s important to take care of both our physical health and our emotional health right now. If you need to take this time to rest,…
Read MoreFree Virtual Class – Branding & Marketing for ProDommes
The ProDomme Playbook: Branding and Marketing for ProDommes (also appropriate for PSOs, Cam Models, and other SWs) This is a scary time for many of us, and it’s important to take care of both our physical health and our emotional health right now. If you need to take this time to rest, you can…
Read MoreAuthentic Kink: Create Your Best Experience
Kinksters often have to depend on erotica and porn to learn what kink looks and feels like, but unfortunately that can create a lot of myths, misunderstandings, and accidental mistakes. BDSM is focused on activities, but just going through the motions won’t guarantee you’ll have a happy, healthy experience. It can take years (and plenty…
Read MoreI remember the very first DomCon…
I remember the very first DomCon at the Beverly Garland hotel nestled in Hollywood. I don’t remember how I first heard about DomCon but I do remember how excited I was there. I was 23 years old and had only recently discovered the BDSM world and in my usual way through myself into it and…
Read MoreCan you teach submission?
One of the reasons I love twitter is the ability to have conversation with people around the world and get inspired by what others are experiencing and talking about. So when Domina Dynasty posed this question on twitter, I was intrigued… Can you teach someone to be submissive? It’s a really interesting question and like…
Read MoreAftercare is for Everyone!
For the first decade of my exploration in the kink scene, whenever I heard about Aftercare it was in the context of something the dominant was supposed to provide to the submissive. It was very clear, due to the tone and nature of any discussion about Aftercare that there was definitely “One Twue Way” of…
Read MoreLiving in a Post 50 Shades World
In 2011, three unassuming fan fiction books were published, and before long the world had collectively lost its mind. By 2012, over 20 million copies of the books had been sold and the mainstream world was suddenly aware of kink in a brand new way. BDSM was being discussed and debated on every morning show…
Read More6 Steps to a More Fulfilling Sex Life
These ideas are meant to be simple(ish) and free (of financial need). But that doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy or that it isn’t going to take any investment. It will be an investment of time, and you may find that doing the simplest thing may be more difficult that you first imagined.…
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