Findom Debt Contracts: The Allure of Erotic Paperwork

The allure of financial domination lies in the exhilarating power dynamics it cultivates, and at the heart of this dynamic lies the commitment of a debt contract—a potent symbol of submission and devotion that sets pulses racing in the world of findom.  For findoms (financial dominants), the seductive appeal of a debt contract lies not…

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Elevate Your Findom Confidence with the FinDom Humiliation Virtual Intensive

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Hey there! If you’ve ever dipped your toes into the world of financial domination (findom), you know it can be both exhilarating and daunting. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, building and sustaining confidence and a genuine understanding is crucial for success and enjoyment in this unique kink. That’s where my intensive comes…

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Finding the Filthy Words That Are Music To Your Ears: Verbal Erotic Humiliation

Exploring the realms of dirty talk and filthy words can be an exhilarating journey, especially when delving into consensual erotic humiliation play scenes.  Verbal Erotic Humiliation Is a Powerful Tool One of the most thrilling aspects of humiliation kink is the exploration of language. Words, when wielded with intention, have the power to electrify the…

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27 Times To Send To Your Favorite FinDom

In the fabulous world of financial domination, sending money to your favorite findom is more than just a transaction—it’s a way to show loyalty, devotion, appreciation, adoration, respect, and so much more. Financial tributes and gifts carry a lot of meaning, transforming ordinary moments into powerful statements of submission and connection. This isn’t just about…

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Creating Female Led Relationship Rules That Work

For many years, all of my submissives were required to greet me properly. This meant requesting permission, kneeling at my feet, and kissing my feet three times. Rules like this immediately re-immerse you both into your chosen roles in a female-led relationship or other Dominant/submissive dynamic. Female-led relationships (FLRs) are unique and empowering dynamics where…

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Announcing the First Annual International FinDom Day

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As a long time findomme and financial domination enthusiast, I’ve decided that we money kinksters need a holiday to celebrate our kink. Since I created National Erotic Humiliation Day in 2016, it’s been a delight to join my fellow humiliation fetishists in celebrating our shared proclivities. Shedding light on erotic humiliation feels especially meaningful since…

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Selecting the Right Kink Coach for Your Journey

So, you and your partner have delved into the enticing world of femdom and Female Led Relationships (FLRs), where the power dynamics tilt in favor of the woman.  It’s not just about bedroom antics; it’s a lifestyle, a dynamic that infuses your everyday existence with a delicious dose of power play and mutual satisfaction.  But,…

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Common Obstacles to Mutually Satisfying Erotic Humiliation

Like any risky or “out-of-the-norm” activity, there are plenty of obstacles that might make it difficult for people to either find opportunities to engage or even express their interest in humiliation play. Here are a few that I’ve seen come up over and over again: Most Common Obstacles to Erotic Humiliation Play Not Many People…

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Are Money Hang-Ups Holding You Back in Findom?

Have you ever thought about why you feel the way you do about money? Maybe you feel a pang of guilt when you splurge on something nice or perhaps you feel a rush of excitement when your bank balance goes up. These feelings aren’t just random; they’re deeply rooted in our personal money stories—narratives shaped…

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