Creating Female Led Relationship Rules That Work

Female-led relationships (FLRs) are unique and empowering dynamics where the woman takes the lead, guiding the structure and direction of the partnership. An FLR flips traditional relationship dynamics on their head, placing the woman in a leadership role. Whether you’re new to the concept or looking to refine your current arrangement, establishing clear and effective…

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Selecting the Right Kink Coach for Your Journey

So, you and your partner have delved into the enticing world of femdom and Female Led Relationships (FLRs), where the power dynamics tilt in favor of the woman.  It’s not just about bedroom antics; it’s a lifestyle, a dynamic that infuses your everyday existence with a delicious dose of power play and mutual satisfaction.  But,…

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Embracing Submission: The Power of Affirmations in FLRs

In the realm of relationships, there exists a vast spectrum of dynamics, each unique and tailored to the individuals involved. Among these, Female Led Relationships (FLRs) stand out as a paradigm where the woman takes the lead, guiding the relationship’s direction, dynamics, and often, the intimate aspects too. Within this framework, affirmations, those empowering statements…

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5 Tips For New Submissives

If you’re starting to explore your submissive side or starting to experiment with dominance & submission in the bedroom, then there are few things that are important to keep in mind. Regardless of what any erotica or fantasy books & movies might show, there is no “one” right way to be submissive. But there are…

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Struggling With Submission As A Woman

In my experience there can be a great deal of guilt on both sides of the D/s dynamic, regardless of gender. So I’m going to do a series of articles about some of the struggles and solutions from each perspective. I presented one of my favorite ‘conceptual’ classes at Ramabo College, D/s as a Feminist…

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Sexy Restraints!

  Restraints are part of a wide range of fantasies. There are a handful of reasons why restraints are so popular, one of the most frequent reasons is the release of control. Letting go of control can lead to powerful connections and powerful orgasms (even better when those are happening at the same time!). For…

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Long Distance Kink – Power Play

The kink community can seem both large and small, but one thing is for sure, we’re all over the nation, and the world. It isn’t unusual for to perverts to play together at an event, make a great connection, and decide to carry on a relationship (be it D/s, service or sexual) long distance. At…

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Keeping Your Kinky Connection, Even With a Busy Schedule

  Many couples that enjoy kinky sex and/ or relationship structures feel that it’s important for BDSM to not be just something that is done in the bedroom but rather as a way to live life. For others kinky sex is something fun to explore but only in the bedroom. Regardless, keeping kink in your…

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