FinDom Fumbles: The Top 3 Errors New Doms Make

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So, you’ve decided to dip your toes into the fascinating world of financial domination! Maybe you’ve heard stories of expensive gifts, loyal submissives, or waking up to a surprise $1,000 tribute. Maybe you’re enticed by the allure of being in control of someone else’s finances (who could blame you?). But before you dive headfirst into…

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Findom Debt Contracts: The Allure of Erotic Paperwork

The allure of financial domination lies in the exhilarating power dynamics it cultivates, and at the heart of this dynamic lies the commitment of a debt contract—a potent symbol of submission and devotion that sets pulses racing in the world of findom.  For findoms (financial dominants), the seductive appeal of a debt contract lies not…

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Elevate Your Findom Confidence with the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive

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Hey there! If you’ve ever dipped your toes into the world of financial domination (findom), you know it can be both exhilarating and daunting. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, building and sustaining confidence and a genuine understanding is crucial for success and enjoyment in this unique kink. That’s where my intensive comes…

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27 Times To Send To Your Favorite FinDom

In the fabulous world of financial domination, sending money to your favorite findom is more than just a transaction—it’s a way to show loyalty, devotion, appreciation, adoration, respect, and so much more. Financial tributes and gifts carry a lot of meaning, transforming ordinary moments into powerful statements of submission and connection. This isn’t just about…

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Announcing the First Annual International FinDom Day

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As a long time findomme and financial domination enthusiast, I’ve decided that we money kinksters need a holiday to celebrate our kink. Since I created National Erotic Humiliation Day in 2016, it’s been a delight to join my fellow humiliation fetishists in celebrating our shared proclivities. Shedding light on erotic humiliation feels especially meaningful since…

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Are Money Hang-Ups Holding You Back in Findom?

Have you ever thought about why you feel the way you do about money? Maybe you feel a pang of guilt when you splurge on something nice or perhaps you feel a rush of excitement when your bank balance goes up. These feelings aren’t just random; they’re deeply rooted in our personal money stories—narratives shaped…

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What’s It Like to Attend the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive? 

If you’ve signed up for the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive (or are thinking about it), Welcome! I’m thrilled to have you there, and I know it’s going to be a valuable training.  But I also know it’s a big commitment, and I imagine you haven’t had the opportunity to attend an intensive like this—at least,…

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Is Ethical Financial Domination Even Possible?

Recently I received this message in my Fetlife inbox. “Is Ethical Financial Domination even possible?” I’m always a bit surprised to hear this from fellow kinksters, though I shouldn’t be. Can’t that question be applied to everything we do? “Is ethical [your favorite kink here] even possible?  Someone who doesn’t understand how consent and context is critically…

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