What is a Kink Life Coach? What is a Kinky Sex Coach?
What is a kink life coach? What is a kinky sex coach?
This is a new frontier in improving your life and sexual experiences. Sex Coaching itself is a new title, and a Kinky Sex Coach is simply a niche version. Life Coaching has been around for a while now, it’s rather unregulated but can be exceptionally helpful. If you’re stumped by an obstacle, unsure of where to take your kinky experience next, just learning about kink, or have been playing for a long time and are looking for some new inspiration….kinky coaching will likely help you out.
Why did I decide to become a Kinky Sex/Life Coach?
I’ve been involved in the BDSM world both personally and professionally for over a decade. Before that, when I was much younger I had D/s relationships but didn’t have the language to describe them that way. When I think back, I’ve really been kinky all my life, and ‘control’ is my main fetish. Being a Pro-Domme allowed me to experiment and explore kinky experiences and perspectives I might not have otherwise been exposed to. All through-out this time I didn’t have anyone to guide me, essentially I was a lost ship, floating around a kinky sea of options and opportunities. Because of this lack of assistance during my kinky growing period, I saw a need for just such a thing. My greatest joy in life is helping others discover, develop or expand their kinky experience.
What kind of things do a Kinky Sex/Life coach do?
Well, I can’t speak for everyone, but I can tell you what I do. First, it entirely depends on who I’m working with. I’ve helped dominants, submissives, fetishists and others who have kinky identities delve into their own desires. This kind of self-awareness can improve life overall, but certainly has had a profound effect on the sex lives of those I’ve worked with. I do this through a variety of techniques. Sometimes it’s a matter of teaching someone a physical technique they’re unfamiliar or proficient with. For example: more efficient flogging or a new way to cane, safety for bondage or impact play, and how to engage in more emotional/psychological play in an enjoyable way. Since my personal focus is on control I’m particularly interested in help D/s relationships improve and/or develop. Many dominants and submissives get stuck trying to make their fantasies come to life and I help give them reality based tools to help that along. A lot of times my goals is to help them ‘get their head in the game’ to feel more confident
How would someone work with a Kink Sex/Life Coach?
I’ve done in-person sessions as well as phone and Skype consultations. Each have their own benefits and weaknesses and the type of interaction is based on both topic, and location. I’m a firm believer in getting a good foundation of understanding established, so I help, regardless of the form, my clients recognize what they already know while refining their approach. I share a LOT of tips and techniques I’ve developed over the years to help my clients enhance their kinky experiences and/or lifestyle.
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