Posts by Princess Kali
Interested in Exploring Financial Domination… But Hate the Conventional Approach?
When you hear the words “financial domination,” what comes to mind? Likely, it’s the stereotypical, humiliation-focused variety, in which a dominant looks down their nose at the sub, demeaning and degrading them as a loser who’s good for nothing but coughing up the cash—no more than a walking wallet or a human ATM. For some…
Read MoreHow (& Why) I Make My Financial Domination Intensive as Accessible as I Can
Two of my staunchest beliefs about the work I do often stand in complete contrast to one another: First, that high quality educational resources should be accessible to everyone looking to earn a living as a sex worker. This industry is incredibly polarized in terms of financial success. One one end of the spectrum, there…
Read MoreWant to be quoted in the updated edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation?
Have you heard the epic news?! I’m currently working on an updated and expanded edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and am launching a new survey to build on the data and quotes gathered the last time around. I’m very interested in your experience! Psychological play is so complex, and I’d like…
Read MoreEnough to Make You Blush: Updated and Expanded Edition Coming Soon!
Since I published the first edition of Enough to Make You Blush in 2015, I have been incredibly honored by the response over the years. This book has transformed my passion into a driving purpose and, more importantly, helped countless readers feel seen and understood — often for the very first time. That’s why I’m…
Read MoreSuperstar Branding for Sex Educators
Are you a current or aspiring sex, kink, or relationship presenter? Do you feel confused by how to set yourself apart in the growing adult sex-education industry? Do you feel that you’re struggling to communicate your expertise in a way that actually gets you booked for classes or makes you any money? The adult sex-ed…
Read MoreIs Ethical Financial Domination Even Possible?
Recently I received this message in my Fetlife inbox. “Is Ethical Financial Domination even possible?” I’m always a bit surprised to hear this from fellow kinksters, though I shouldn’t be. Can’t that question be applied to everything we do? “Is ethical [your favorite kink here] even possible? Someone who doesn’t understand how consent and context is critically…
Read MoreMaking Bank: A Budget Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs
For many years, Princess Kali approached the money she made from her career in sex work with an “easy come, easy go” attitude. There was always enough, and there was always more on the way. But as her money goals grew beyond impulsive daily desires and monthly rent, she realized she needed to shift her…
Read MoreAuthentic Kink: Create Your Best Experience
Kinksters often have to depend on erotica and porn to learn what kink looks and feels like, but unfortunately that can create a lot of myths, misunderstandings, and accidental mistakes. BDSM is focused on activities, but just going through the motions won’t guarantee you’ll have a happy, healthy experience. It can take years (and plenty…
Read MoreI remember the very first DomCon…
I remember the very first DomCon at the Beverly Garland hotel nestled in Hollywood. I don’t remember how I first heard about DomCon but I do remember how excited I was there. I was 23 years old and had only recently discovered the BDSM world and in my usual way through myself into it and…
Read MoreAftercare is for Everyone!
For the first decade of my exploration in the kink scene, whenever I heard about Aftercare it was in the context of something the dominant was supposed to provide to the submissive. It was very clear, due to the tone and nature of any discussion about Aftercare that there was definitely “One Twue Way” of…
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