All workshops can be done in 60, 90, or 120 minutes.
Ready to discuss bringing me to your event? Email me directly
CoachingByKali at Gmail.com
To celebrate my popular book “Enough to Make You Blush: An Introduction to Erotic Humiliation” I’m particularly looking for groups & events that would like to host the class my book is based on.
Happy, Healthy Humiliation (this is a general overview style class)
Humiliation is such a complex and varied fetish that many lifestyle and professional players hesitate to delve very deeply into the many fun options for embarrassing, degrading or humiliating their submissive. After attending this workshop however, both light and heavy players will be equipped with exciting new ideas to use and expand upon. Everything from dehumanization, to chastity training, to verbal humiliation and water-sports will be discussed, as well as How to Humiliate Happily- the ways to make sure that everyone is getting what they need from the experience.
(I also offer a one or two day erotic humiliation intensive, read more information here)
Erotic Slut Shaming – Sexual Humiliation – (Brand New Class!)
Erotic Slut-Shaming describes all the wonderful ways to play with transforming society’s disdain for slutty behavior into an erotic and arousing way to play with psychological torment. We’ll discuss a variety of ways to get into (or get your partner into) “slut-space” such as – nudity, sex, masturbation, orgasm control, and so much more!
A Deeper Shade of Red – Advanced Erotic Humiliation & Degradation – (Brand New Class!)
Humiliation isn’t just about smeared mascara and groveling under boots, it’s also about exploring vulnerability, trust, control, and sacrifice through absurdity, amusement, and consensual cruelty. If you’ve played with psychological torment before & are interested in learning more about your desires & potential new ways to play, then this class is definitely for you. We’ll dive deeper into more “hardcore” aspects of psychological sadism in ways that minimize risk and maximize creativity when playing on the edge.
Featured Special Event
Humiliation Truth or Dare – an Interactive (& Consensual!) Game
Get ready for a game that’ll have you laughing (both WITH and AT people!) Dominants, switches and submissives can all enjoy this round-robin game of truth or dare. ‘Fess up about your desires, hear others darkest fantasies & get some action with kinky dares. Have as little, or as much control over your participation as you want, it’s all in good fun!
(This fun game can be done during a 1 hour workshop slot or as a special 90 minute event.)
Packing Consent in Your Toybag
The hot-button topic of consent is everywhere right now. On the face of it, it should be simple: ‘Yes’ means yes and ‘no’ means no. But in a scene context, establishing and communicating consent requires thought and planning. This class is designed to cover consent themes of interest to all orientations and genders. It will cover identifying and communicating what you want, negotiating with partners, navigating consent within a scene, how to withdraw consent, and more. Whether you’re new to kink or been playing for years, this workshop will supply you with concrete tools to help you craft your own consent and understand others’ consent.
Coming Out Kinky
Princess Kali discusses the various aspects of coming out as kinky during this interactive presentation. She will help you set the context for the “coming out” conversation, highlight three reasons (political, health, and social) for coming out, note the various levels of the process of coming out, and cover some of the effects of coming out too. Kali will also give you some concrete tips on how to come out to important people in your life.
Dominance & Submission
In this class, Princess Kali will dispel the fears and stereotypes commonly associated with domination. Find the spark that ignites your dominant desires and reveal your inner-self. Archetypes, style, integrity, communication skills and effective use of aftercare will all be considered in this brand new class which focuses less on the activity and more on the intention. This class is appropriate for any gender, sexual orientation or skill level.
How to train a service submissive
Most Tops & Dom/me’s dream about having a well behaved service submissive to call their very own. But finding one pre-trained can be rough (and training out bad behaviors can be even tougher!) so it’s better to find and train your own, to your exact specifications. Once you’ve found someone who meets your standards, then the actual training of a service submissive can be fun for both sides! With a little creativity and a lot of discipline, a top-notch servant can be created out of almost anyone.
Managing Multiple Submissives
Whether you have a stable of submissives that serve you on a regular basis (or hope to in the future!), or you would just like to learn how to play & multi- task with multiple subs at dungeon parties to impress the crowd, this class will teach you fun and immediately usable techniques to keep more than one slut busy at a time! Using corporal tools, sensation play, light to heavy humiliation, bondage and predicaments you can become the ring leader of a circus of subs!
Becoming a Sexually Dominant Woman
There are a lot of myths about powerful women and they can get in the way when you want to tap into your femme power. Fortunately, Princess Kali can make it much easier to be both strong and feminine. She’ll help you discover your dominant persona and style, offer tips on becoming comfortable in that role, show you a few basic kinky toys, get you started on using sexy verbal play, and more. She’ll even give you some ideas for bringing service submission into your play so your partner can pamper you the way you deserve! Let your powerful side out and see how much fun she can be! This workshop focuses on women with male partners.
Women Taking Power: D/s dynamic as Feminist Expression
Every woman has a right to choose what their experience of sexuality is, though many women struggle with fitting their desire to be submissive or dominant into their philosophy of feminism. This class will address the process that each woman goes through to claim their own power, regardless of which side of the D/s dynamic she prefers. (This is a group discussion)
Play & Practice
The Creative Kinksters’ Guide to a Sexy and Exciting Scene
A creative scene doesn’t always require an extensive set up, big muscles, or a lot of time. The Creative Kinkster philosophy says to use your brain rather than your brawn! Princess Kali will share dozens of concrete examples for both Tops AND Bottoms on how to get more inventive in designing your play time. Using inexpensive resources, imaginative mindsets and ‘real world’ situations that will help keep your play hot and happening often, without putting in any extra work! This class is appropriate for all sides of the power dynamic, all genders, all skill levels and differently-abled body types. It’s a seriously surprisingly versatile class!
The Lazy Top’s Guide to Pacing a Scene
Princess Kali has some simple (& some ingenious) tips for the ‘Lazy Top’ on how to effectively and easily set the pace of a scene, whether your kinky play lasts an hour, a weekend or even longer. Learn techniques to guide the timing and intensity of each session so that you are actually in control without having to work too hard at it (this is a ‘Lazy Top’ class after all!). This class can help anyone (new or advanced) learn creative tricks to tame time.
The Dragon-tail: The most versatile tool in your toy bag!
With a just a simple piece of rolled leather, you can elicit sensations ranging from stingy, like a single-tail or thuddy, like a paddle. Not much energy is needed to really make an impact with this unassuming toy, but with a fierce flick of the wrist there’s no denying the power of the dragon-tail! Learn various techniques, positions for your sub/bottom, and glamorous actions to impress your friends and dungeon-mates.
Face Slapping – Hand to Cheek
Not just for Hollywood Heroines and offended prudes, face slapping can be a playful and powerful way to get Your point across. From a light tap on the cheek to a back-swing bitch-slap, there are as many ways to do it, as there are reasons to enjoy it. Come learn the history and techniques of face slapping and leave the class feeling slap-happy!
Role-play for Everyone
Have you ever fantasized that you were a ruthless Pirate King taking advantage of a willing wench? Or how about a doctor giving a patient a “special” examination? Maybe you’re a student who needs a better grade in math class? Whatever your desires and fantasies, role-play can be a fun way to bring them out and explore new facets of your imagination. If you’ve ever wanted to give it a try and didn’t know how to get started, this workshop with is for you! She’ll help you create personas and characters, develop dialogue to keep things hot, make or find costumes and props, and much more. Come learn how to tap into your creative side to have all sorts of new sexual adventures and more fun than you thought possible! This class is open to individuals and couples.
Chastity Training: Learning to Love the Lock
The thought of chastity usually strikes terror as well as exhilaration in the heart of the one being locked. With a mix of tease and denial, power and control, and a little physical suffering thrown in for good measure, Chastity Training can add whole new (and surprising!) dimensions to your sexual relationships. Whether it’s used for short periods (hours and days) or long periods (weeks, months and years) making Chastity Training work for you is more possible than you think!!
Financial Fetish: Using sense while spending dollars (aka How to do Financial Domination Without Being an Asshole)
To this day, financial fetish and domination is one of the most misunderstood power play experiences. Like any expression of power it has the potential for abuse, and has gotten a rather bad wrap because of the exploitation possibilities. However, using money within a healthy D/s relationship can be exciting and edgy way to open up a whole new realm of submission and dominance. This class will give you some reasonable guidelines to enjoy this complex and sexy kinky activity
Ready to discuss bringing me to your event? Email me directly
CoachingByKali at Gmail.com