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prodomme mentoring

Professional Domination can be an exciting and rewarding career, with incredible opportunity for profit, and genuine pleasure. When approached with sound business advice and wisdom gained from experience, you are more likely to avoid some of the negative sides of the industry.

Preparation and education for this job is important to establishing and sustaining a healthy business if you're just starting out. And if you've been in the industry for years, having an outside perspective can help you innovate to keep your career fresh.

My Background:

My career as an active Professional Dominatrix lasted more than a decade, but I've had ties to the community for 16 years through the workshops I teach, the websites I own, and the events I continue to attend. For years I've offered lifestyle coaching in addition to teaching at events, so I have hundreds of hours helping kinksters just like you. I have a strong background in business & marketing in addition to my experience as a ProDomme, so I'm able to offer insight into how to use best-practices in the kink industry.

Topics that can be covered:

  • Finding your niche & specialties
  • How to build a memorable brand & well-known style
  • Ways to attract & keep your ideal clients
  • Streamlining systems (email, booking, social media)
  • Self-care & avoiding burn-out
  • Expanding your reach - videos, workshops, etc.

Also -

  • Application, interview and general filtering process
  • Dealing with deposits, payments and tributes
  • Advertising: banners, places to post, places to advertise w/a good return rate
  • Personal Website: to do it or not to do it, what should be on it, etc.
  • Presenting yourself: photos, interests, limits
  • Setting & keeping boundaries: what’s for pro, what’s for personal
  • Pacing a professional scene: planning & keeping it exciting with limited options
  • How to handle stalkers and overly-emotional clients
  • Setting up a professional dungeon or traveling tool-kit
  • What to wear: fetish vs comfort
  • Communicating with the client in the scene and the dynamic: how to be a mind reader
  • Branching out into sex or kink education

Booking a Session

All sessions are done by phone or Zoom video conferencing, so it doesn't matter where you live (I'm based in the San Francisco, CA area on Pacific Time.)

Email me directly to schedule an appointment.

Private Coaching Sessions


I have been working with Kali Williams for about one and a half years as a mentorship client and I recommend her highly. I sought out Kali for her coaching services for a couple of reasons. First, Kali’s analytical approach to crafting kink experiences reflects what I aspired toward as a professional Dominatrix. Secondly, Kali’s personalized teaching style made me feel confident that I would get what I needed out of our consultations.

Kali has advised me on a wide variety of topics such as managing expectations in D/s relationships (both professional and lifestyle), branding, establishing boundaries with clients, pricing structures, and safety/best practices. She has also worked with me to refine my presentation and public speaking skills. I’ve left every consultation with a solid game plan.

Kali listens attentively, validates experiences, and masterfully synthesizes the information provided to offer tangible and measurable steps to achieve my goals.

Whether you are an educator looking to sharpen your public speaking skills or a fetish provider seeking council on how to attract the right clients, mentorship with Kali is a worthwhile investment. I highly recommend her to anyone working as an alternative sexuality professional!

Mistress Mia Action

Dominatrix. Keyholder. Pervert. 

Thank you so much for the wonderful class on humiliation yesterday evening. It was very educational and entertaining (your stories were hilarious!). I look forward to reading your book Enough to Make You Blush and any other books you write in the future.


You gave me one of those "click" moments that I was talking about :) I feel like I now have some wonderful tools to help me grow as a kinkster and to help me negotiate amazing scenes.


I so enjoyed Your very informative, interactive, energetic & engaging online class today! Findom no different than any other kink IMO. All about context, intent and consent. You enthusiastically showed great ways to make it fun, practical & rewarding to those wishing to explore. 


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