Tag: dominance

How I Discovered My Own Domme Aesthetic

When I got into the professional kink world nearly 25 years ago, the standard look was typically latex and leather. While there were some exceptions, like Mistress Precious in Texas, who dresses elegantly and wears a signature bow in her hair, and Mistress Ellen in San Diego, who favors a prim Victorian look, the majority…

Princess Kali’s 7 Principles of Dominance

Dominance isn’t about relentlessly pretending to be an all-powerful ruler without emotions or flaws. It’s about being a real human who enjoys expressing and exploring positive personal power in a consensual D/s dynamic. Over the years, through all of my lifestyle and professional kink adventures, I’ve learned to root my dominance in seven core principles.…

What’s it like to attend the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive?

If you’ve signed up for the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive (or are thinking about it), Welcome! I’m thrilled to have you there, and I know it’s going to be a valuable training. But I also know it’s a big commitment, and I imagine you haven’t had the opportunity to attend an intensive like this—at…

Selecting the Right Kink Coach for Your Journey

So, you and your partner have delved into the enticing world of femdom and Female Led Relationships (FLRs), where the power dynamics tilt in favor of the woman. It’s not just about bedroom antics; it’s a lifestyle, a dynamic that infuses your everyday existence with a delicious dose of power play and mutual satisfaction. But,…

Struggling With Submission As A Woman

In my experience there can be a great deal of guilt on both sides of the D/s dynamic, regardless of gender. So I’m going to do a series of articles about some of the struggles and solutions from each perspective. I presented one of my favorite ‘conceptual’ classes at Ramabo College, D/s as a Feminist…

How do I bring a Second Dominant into My Established Cuckolding Relationship?

I recently received this email and thought it would make a great blog post to share my thoughts with everyone! Dear Princess Kali, I have read a lot about you and have seen many of your videos and I really appreciate what you bring to the kink community. Even though I have never heard…

5 Things To Remember As A New Dominant

Everyone has to start somewhere. Even if we have a naturally dominant nature, putting that to use in a D/s context can have its challenges. There are a lot of novels & fantasy stories about how ‘easily’ it all comes when someone is a “true dominant”, but this isn’t any more accurate than saying how…

Long Distance Kink – Power Play

The kink community can seem both large and small, but one thing is for sure, we’re all over the nation, and the world. It isn’t unusual for to perverts to play together at an event, make a great connection, and decide to carry on a relationship (be it D/s, service or sexual) long distance. At…

Keeping Your Kinky Connection, Even With a Busy Schedule

Many couples that enjoy kinky sex and/ or relationship structures feel that it’s important for BDSM to not be just something that is done in the bedroom but rather as a way to live life. For others kinky sex is something fun to explore but only in the bedroom. Regardless, keeping kink in your…