Vibe Check:
Align Your Brand with Your Vision

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Craft a brand that reflects your authentic power and attracts clients who crave your energy.

Your brand is more than colors, photos, or a tagline. 

It's the feeling people get when they encounter you.

It's the impression you leave behind, the emotion you stir, and the story they tell about you long after a session has ended.

As a ProDom or other Erotic Entrepreneur, you already have a deep understanding of your strengths, your style, and the energy you bring into every interaction. Translating that into clear, compelling messaging that connects with the right clients can be tricky. That is where the Vibe Check comes in.

This process helps you clarify who you are, who you most want to attract, and how to make sure your audience sees what you want them to see.

The Vibe Check is a deep-dive for ProDommes who want to make sure the power they intend to project is the power their audience actually sees.

When your brand truly fits you, everything gets easier.

Stand out in a crowded field. Not by trying harder, but by being more you.

Attract clients who instantly “get” your energy and respect your boundaries.

Charge the rates you deserve because your value is unmistakable.

Thank you for existing as a coach for such a specialized art form. So many of us SW's work alone and have no one to talk to about our businesses. We often celebrate milestones alone and suffer from BS from bad clients we have to deal with. It's wonderful to have you as a guide throughout our journey and as we evolve artistically.

Irma La Dulce

Irma La Dulce

Get Expert Support That Understands Your World

Even the most powerful Dommes benefit from an outside perspective. When you are immersed in your own work, it is hard to see how your message lands with potential clients.

That’s where I come in. As a coach who’s spent decades in professional domination and erotic entrepreneurship, I help you:

Translate your instinctual power into a clear, consistent message.

Express your unique eroticism with both authenticity and professionalism.

Ensure your website and social media reflect the energy and experience you want clients to associate with you.

Who This Is For

This coaching series is ideal for ProDommes and other Erotic Entrepreneurs who:

Are just starting out and want to build a strong brand from the ground up.

Are experienced and established, but feel the need for a brand refresh

Two Sessions to Elevate Your Brand and Attract Ideal Clients

Vibe Check coaching sessions are designed to guide you through the crucial steps of developing a distinctive, captivating brand and identifying your ideal clients. 

This isn’t about blending into the sea of professionals; it’s about standing out with authenticity, intention, and unshakable confidence.

This two-session coaching series follows my signature ProDom Playbook, a proven framework to help ProDommes (and other sex workers) clarify your unique brand and connect with your ideal clients. 

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Session 1: Define Your Brand & Ideal Client Profile

In our first session, we will uncover your unique Dominant identity and translate it into a brand that clearly communicates your power. You already know what makes you magnetic. The challenge is expressing it in a way that connects with the right audience.

You’ll clarify:

Your core Dominant Identity including what drives you and defines your power.

The distinct personality that makes your brand feel alive and unmistakably yours.

The clients who are drawn to that energy, and how to communicate directly to them.

By the end, you’ll have a clear, confident grasp of your “Dominant DNA” including the emotional keywords words, fashion style, visuals, and tone that bring it to life.

Session 2: Refine, Align & Amplify

After you have had time to reflect on your first session, we will meet again to refine your brand and review how it shows up across your digital presence.

Together, we’ll:

Review your website and socials to ensure your presentation matches your intention.

Spot gaps or contradictions that might confuse potential clients.

Align your tone, visuals, and content strategy with your desired audience and goals.

You’ll walk away with specific, actionable feedback, and the confidence that your online presence matches your inner power.

I’m Princess Kali and I’ve been fully immersed, both personally and professionally, in the psychology of kink and power exchange for more than twenty-five years.

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While some things came naturally, many of the lessons I’ve learned have been hard won, and it’s become my life’s mission to share everything I’ve learned in a way that makes kink and D/s accessible, playful, and truly authentic.

If you’re looking for credibility and qualifications, there’s certainly no shortage here! In the last two-and-a-half decades, I’ve been a professional dominatrix (inducted into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame in 2022), a lifestyle coach and prodomme mentor, and an international educator and speaker in kink, academic, and mainstream spaces. In 2007, I created KinkAcademy.com, and in 2020 I launched the Red Key Club. I’m also the author of thirteen books and workbooks including Enough to Make You Blush and Authentic Kink (plus eight game and communication decks), with more titles on the way. 

What can I say? I’m pervy and prolific (and proud of it)! 

My approach to coaching is a joyful and enthusiastic one! I love helping you discover (or rediscover) your passion and power, and I’m deeply committed to normalizing the ways kinky people care for each other along with celebrating creative (and consensual) sexual exploration. 

What this means for you is that all of the knowledge, experience, insight, and ideas that I’ve acquired become available to you—like a living encyclopedia who gives you a fresh perspective and empowers you to trust yourself and each other.

Get Expert Support That Understands Your World

If you're ready to take your professional domination to the next level and create a brand that's truly remarkable, Vibe Check will help you make it happen.

In two sessions, spread out over one to two months, I will support you as you build or refine a brand that aligns with your goals. In each session you will be given concrete, actionable suggestions to improve your professional experience immediately.

What You Get

Two expert sessions with me - via phone/zoom, whatever your preference
(75 minutes per session)

Optional recordings so you can reference our discussion later

Timely suggested resources and exercises specific to your situation, to continue progress on your own in between sessions and long after we work together

Bonus

3-month membership to RedKeyClub.com, valued at $75, gives you access to my industry-only, virtual community with live events and 60+ hours of class and discussion recordings.

The ProDom Playbook workbook, valued at $25, which we’ll use as a reference during our work together.

Discounts on mybooks, decks, and other kinky goodies in my personal bookstore as well as future coaching sessions

Investment:

$500

 

Or two payments of $250

Coaching package is paid for in advance, is non-refundable and can be used for up to 6 months after purchase.

I made more progress than I could’ve imagined in a much shorter time than I ever expected.

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Jade

Now Accepting New Clients!

Interested in working together?

Please fill out this form and answer these questions with as much or as little information as you’re comfortable with. The more information you share the better I'll be able to tell if we're a good match and if I'll be able to help you meet your goals. All information is confidential.

All sessions are done by phone or Zoom video conferencing, so it doesn't matter where you live. (I'm based in the San Francisco, CA area on Pacific Time.) All packages are paid for in advance, are non-refundable and can be used for up to 6 months after purchase. I can help you choose a package based on your situation and goals.

Kink Coaching: What's Next?

If we decide to move forward together I’ll send you a simple intake survey that will help me understand the challenges you are currently facing. Once you purchase the package best suited to your needs, we’ll schedule our first session and create a game plan!

Check out my Testimonials Page to see how I’ve helped people just like you.

Kali is a gifted kink coach. She helped me look deeply into the complexity of my emotions, desires, and predilections. And, from this, I was able to come to terms, meet if you will, my true self. Our work together was a wonderful journey. If you have a chance to work with her, you won't be disappointed.

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Kink Coach FAQ

I am currently accepting new clients, with limited availability. Fill out my application above and I'll get back to you with more information.

Are you a ProDomme (or aspiring ProDomme) looking for more extensive mentorship?

I offer specialized guidance for industry folks, check out more information here.

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