Category: Blog Post

How I Discovered My Own Domme Aesthetic

When I got into the professional kink world nearly 25 years ago, the standard look was typically latex and leather. While there were some exceptions, like Mistress Precious in Texas, who dresses elegantly and wears a signature bow in her hair, and Mistress Ellen in San Diego, who favors a prim Victorian look, the majority…

Princess Kali’s 7 Principles of Dominance

Dominance isn’t about relentlessly pretending to be an all-powerful ruler without emotions or flaws. It’s about being a real human who enjoys expressing and exploring positive personal power in a consensual D/s dynamic. Over the years, through all of my lifestyle and professional kink adventures, I’ve learned to root my dominance in seven core principles.…

What’s it like to attend the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive?

If you’ve signed up for the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive (or are thinking about it), Welcome! I’m thrilled to have you there, and I know it’s going to be a valuable training. But I also know it’s a big commitment, and I imagine you haven’t had the opportunity to attend an intensive like this—at…

Erotic Humiliation Isn’t For Everyone, and It Might Not Be For You

Exploring the depths of human sexuality can be both intriguing and uncomfortable—sometimes at the same time! In my book, Enough To Make You Blush, I push the boundaries of what is “supposed” to be sexy, and how people are “supposed” to behave in the bedroom. For some, this exploration may feel thrilling and liberating.…

How to Celebrate National Erotic Humiliation Day

I can’t believe 2025 will be the 10th Annual National Erotic Humiliation Day! Time flies when you’re being pervy. Every year on the last Saturday of October (it will be Saturday, October 25th) we celebrate all of our dirty desires and share them with the world to honor a deeply misunderstood fetish: psychological torment and…

The Red Key Club is Moving to RedKeyClub.com!

After four incredible years of hosting the Red Key Club right here on Patreon, I’m thrilled to announce that we’re taking the leap to a bigger and better private platform! Say hello to the new and improved RedKeyClub.com! This move marks a significant milestone for us, and I couldn’t be more excited about the possibilities…

How to Use Kink Books to Improve Your Practice

If you’re looking to deepen your understanding of kink and BDSM, reading books by kink experts can be a fantastic way to learn. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, there’s always something new to explore. Here are some tips on how to use kink books to enhance your practice and knowledge.…

Daily D/s: A Communication Journal for Dominants and Submissives – Now Available!

The Daily D/s Journal is crafted to enhance the dynamic between dominants and submissives. Whether you are experienced or new to the BDSM lifestyle, this journal will support and enrich your unique relationship through reflection, growth, and connection. It also serves as a record of your journey together, allowing you to look back at your…

Elevate Your Findom Confidence with the FinDom Humiliation Virtual Intensive

Hey there! If you’ve ever dipped your toes into the world of financial domination (findom), you know it can be both exhilarating and daunting. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, building and sustaining confidence and a genuine understanding is crucial for success and enjoyment in this unique kink. That’s where my intensive comes…

Finding the Filthy Words That Are Music To Your Ears: Verbal Erotic Humiliation

Exploring the realms of dirty talk and filthy words can be an exhilarating journey, especially when delving into consensual erotic humiliation play scenes. Verbal Erotic Humiliation Is a Powerful Tool One of the most thrilling aspects of humiliation kink is the exploration of language. Words, when wielded with intention, have the power to electrify the…