current events
International Erotic Humiliation Day (Free Worldwide)
October 25, 2025
Every year on the last Saturday of October (this year it will be Saturday, October 25th) we celebrate all of our dirty desires and share them with the world to honor a deeply misunderstood fetish: psychological torment and teasing, or erotic humiliation.
The term “erotic humiliation” covers a broad spectrum of interests of levels of play (you can learn more about it in my book, Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation) and even in the kinky world, people often mistake it for “being mean” which isn’t the case at all.
Celebrate with erotic humiliation lovers around the world by sharing your photos, stories, questions, fantasies, and more on your favorite social media sites with the hashtag #HumiliationDay
Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive
February 2026
Design Your Dominance: Weekend Intensive is a transformative two-day experience designed for women and non-binary people who want to step confidently into their Dominant selves. Through a combination of guided exercises, expert feedback, group brainstorming, and reflection, you’ll explore the full authenticity of your Dominant Self.
Whether it’s an extension of your everyday self or a more theatrical, larger-than-life persona, you’ll learn to embody authority with confidence, navigate challenges like Dom Fatigue and Dom Drop, and create sustainable self-care practices that allow your dominance to thrive.