Looking for trusted tools, inspiring educators, and game-changing resources to deepen your kinky journey or fuel your erotic business growth?
You’re in the right place. I’m in the process of curating a collection of my all-time favorite classes, mentors, products, and recommendations—everything I personally love and believe in.
This page is regularly updated, so go ahead and bookmark it now. You’ll want to come back often. (Many more links coming soon!)
Lifestyle
Websites
I launched this comprehensive video-based learning platform for kink, BDSM, and sexual exploration, featuring hundreds of real-world tutorials taught by experienced educators. Whether you're a curious beginner or a seasoned player, you'll find practical, inclusive, and shame-free instruction on everything from rope and impact play to communication, consent, and power dynamics—all designed to help you explore safely, skillfully, and confidently at your own pace.
Submissive Guide is an educational hub founded in 2007 by Luna Carruthers, dedicated to offering down‑to‑earth advice for people exploring submission, BDSM, and D/s dynamics.
In-Person Events
Professional
Websites
I launched this educational resource for erotic entrepreneurs in 2020 as a virtual space dedicated to helping erotic entrepreneurs improve business skills and understanding, network with peers, and find community.
Wicked Alliance is a business-focused education platform founded by veteran content creator Alexandra Snow, offering expert-led courses and resources designed specifically for adult industry professionals. Their curriculum covers everything from content organization and fan‑club management to marketing, analytics, and monetization
Run by Mistress Viola Parker and the legendary Natasha Strange in Portland, OR - they offer both in-person and virtual training for both lifestyle and professional kinksters.
Created by Lola Jean and Shayla Lagne, the site includes a large library of recorded classes by a wide variety of educators and professionals, and they also offer a weekend in-person intensive.
Books
I created this workbook to help you identify your unique edge, refine ideal client profiles, structure pricing to meet financial goals, and develop retention plans that convert one‑time customers into loyal supporters.
Thriving in Sex Work by Lola Davina
A self-help book written for sex workers of all genders and job titles. Lola Davina, former stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort, draws on her more than 25 years in and around the sex industry to provide concrete, heartfelt advice for facing the unique emotional challenges of the sex industry.
In-Person Events
DomCon is the original event for those interested in the professional world of BDSM, fetish, and kink. Held annually in Los Angeles and New Orleans, DomCon brings together prodommes, BDSM enthusiasts, and industry professionals from around the world.