How Would It Feel to Own Your Erotic Dominance Fully and Authentically?
Give your fantasies shape into the real world.
Build a deep understanding of your desires.
Want to experience the first Design Your Dominance: Weekend Intensive?
October 25 - 26, 2025
Fill out the application form to apply to attend!
More information will be sent as it becomes available.
Who Do You Want to Be When You’re in Charge?
Do you ever feel like you’re missing the words, tone, or energy to really express your dominance the way you imagine it in your head?
Are you ready to step into dominance with more clarity, so you can stop overthinking and start enjoying the power of it?
Dominance isn’t about forcing yourself into someone else’s mold—it’s about claiming the authority of your own power, grounded in authenticity and consent.
In the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive, you’ll join a small group of likeminded femdoms for a transformational two-day experience. Together, we’ll explore what authenticity looks like for you.
Maybe your Dominant Self is a bold reflection of who you already are—expanded, exaggerated, and sparkling with the theatrics of kink. Or maybe she’s the doorway into untapped parts of yourself—qualities you’ve longed to embody but never dared to claim.
Both paths are valid. Both are powerful. And in Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive, you’ll have the guidance and support to explore whichever expression feels truest for you.
Because here’s the truth: if your dominance doesn’t feel as confident or embodied as you want it to (yet), that’s not a failure. It’s a universal step in the kink journey. And you don’t have to stay stuck there. This intensive is your chance to move past hesitation and step fully into a Dominant Self that feels compelling, embodied, and unapologetically yours.
This intensive is designed for those who live or have lived in the world as women and want to claim their erotic dominance, including trans women and non-binary people who resonate with femdom identity.
Very Limited Space — to ensure a well-curated experience for everyone attending, approval is required before purchasing your seat.
I have attended quite a few conventions and classes. [Design Your Dominance] by Princess Kali has been by far one of the most influential of them all.
Princess Kali taught me to embrace the dominant side of myself, rather than fall into the trap of believing that being an assertive woman means being "bitchy." This class quite literally changed my life, both in the bedroom and at work, where I've learned to stop being apologetic for having an opinion. I highly recommend this class!
Kaminaru
What is the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive?
This is a two-day immersive virtual intensive crafted to help dominant women—new and experienced alike—develop a grounded, confident, and embodied dominant self that feels true to you.
This program is for you if you...
Through direct guidance, feedback and brainstorming with Kali along with group support and reflection, this weekend intensive helps you achieve deep personal understanding in a short period of time
Very Limited Space — to ensure a well-curated experience for everyone attending, approval is required before purchasing your seat.
I recently had the pleasure of attending Princess Kali’s Workshop for Dominant Women. I was struck by Kali’s enthusiasm, energy and insight. It’s clear that she is very well-versed in her subject matter, and she has the rare ability to communicate and teach what she knows. I will happily attend any workshop or seminar that Kali teaches in the future.
Lisa
Here’s a peek at what we’ll be covering.
Kali will share information and inspiration that will give you a framework for healthy, informed play along with concrete suggestions for integrating the Design Your Dominance Philosophy into your power exchange and kink explorations. Kali will use a visual slide deck along with storytelling, small group discussions, fun worksheets, and stretching exercises to keep you engaged while giving you concrete and actionable advice that you can immediately apply to your erotic dominance journey.
In this virtual intensive we’ll be exploring the following topics:
Day 1 - October 25, 2025
Foundational Concepts
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How common femdom stereotypes hold us back (and what’s actually true)
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Common obstacles dominants face when stepping into their power
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Why “human first, kinkster second” gives you breathing room and balance
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Perfection is an illusion: permission to make mistakes and learn as you go
Persona Development
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Building from your authentic self or experimenting with a crafted persona
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Clarifying your kernel kink—what core feelings or experiences you want to create
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Distinguishing your style/energy from your role in play
- Sorting your desires into must-haves, maybes, and nice-to-haves
Day 2 - October 26, 2025
Embodying Your Dominance
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Choose three Dominant Muses (from pop culture, history, or fiction) for inspiration
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Explore clothing and accessories that help you embody your dominant energy
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Use your voice with intention: asking, commanding, and experimenting with tone
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Explore movement as a tool—choose gestures, posture, and pacing consciously
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Experiment with sensory sparks to deepen dominant headspace
Sustainable Dominance
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How Dom Space affects you and your energy during a scene
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Understanding Dom Fatigue and creating a self-care routine
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Recognizing and managing Dom Drop
- Sharing responsibilities and asking for help without undermining your dynamic
Bonus! (Optional Events)
Individual 1:1 Coaching Session
This is your chance to get one-on-one, in-depth guidance on fine-tuning your Dominant Self Profile, Aftercare Plan, or any questions that came up as you put your dominance into practice after the intensive. Together, we’ll refine your next steps so you feel clear, confident, and ready to keep growing.
Pre-Intensive Networking and Social
Other than the thoughtful content, one of the most valuable aspects of the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive is the community connections you can make. Maximize your networking by joining us for an optional pre-intensive social, with 90 minutes of "speed networking" in a no-pressure environment to get to know the other attendees.
- October 24th at 5pm Pacific
Two Group Coaching Sessions
It can feel overwhelming to put everything you learn into practice, so to help you truly integrate the information into your kink journey, I’ve added two additional group coaching sessions after the intensive.
- (Tentative) November 5th at 5pm Pacific
- (Tentative) December 6th at 11am Pacific
You’re welcome to attend one, both, or neither of these meetings!
Benefits of attending the group coaching sessions:
- More time to talk to with me and questions about the content
- Peer support and connecting with fellow femdoms
- Brainstorming action steps and providing supportive accountability
- Celebration of successes
You’ll leave the Design Your Dominance Weekend with:
You’ll leave this immersive experience with more than inspiration: you’ll walk away with a well-defined Dominant Self Profile. This isn’t just a concept—it’s a tangible map of your values, energy, style, and presence as a Dominant. You’ll be able to share it with a partner, use it in future negotiations, or return to it as a touchstone when self-doubt creeps in.
Your Dominant Self deserves space to grow—are you ready?
Kali is a fantastic educator. Not only is she a talented speaker with a great sense of humor, but she's also a presenter who gives her audience exactly what they want: insightful, practical advice that they can put to immediate use.
K.S, Ph.D
Meet Princess Kali
While some things came naturally, many of the lessons I’ve learned have been hard won, and it’s become my life’s mission to share everything I’ve learned in a way that makes kink and D/s accessible, playful, and truly authentic.
If you’re looking for credibility and qualifications, there’s certainly no shortage here! In the last two-and-a-half decades, I’ve been a professional dominatrix (inducted into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame in 2022), a lifestyle coach and prodomme mentor, and an international educator and speaker in kink, academic, and mainstream spaces. In 2007, I created KinkAcademy.com, and in 2020 I launched the Red Key Club. I’m also the author of thirteen books and workbooks including Enough to Make You Blush and Authentic Kink (plus eight games and communication decks), with more titles on the way.
What can I say? I’m pervy and prolific (and proud of it)!
My approach to coaching and teaching is a joyful and enthusiastic one! I love helping you discover (or rediscover) your passion and power, and I’m deeply committed to normalizing the ways kinky people care for each other along with celebrating creative (and consensual) sexual exploration.
What this means for you is that all of the knowledge, experience, insight, and ideas that I’ve acquired become available to you—like a living encyclopedia who gives you a fresh perspective and empowers you to trust yourself.
Main Event Details
October 25-26, 2025
Day 1
- 10am* - 12pm: Foundational Concepts
- 12pm - 1pm: Meal Break
- 1pm - 5pm: Developing Your Dominant Self
*Pacific Time
Day 2
- 10am* - 1pm: Embodying Your Dominant Self
- 1pm - 2pm: Meal Break
- 2pm - 4pm: Sustainable Dominance
*Pacific Time
We’ll start each day in our private Zoom room with everyone’s camera on to check in, then during the class all attendees will have their video and audio turned off. Each session will include a full content presentation followed by a quick stretch break before splitting up into small groups for discussion and then a review with the whole class.
This intensive is designed for those who live or have lived in the world as women and want to claim their dominance, including trans women and non-binary people who resonate with femdom identity.
Very Limited Space — to ensure a well-curated experience for everyone attending, approval is required before purchasing your seat.
Princess Kali is always a funny, engaging speaker. Many people can do that. But what makes Princess Kali most valuable, and such a resource to the community, is the many, many ways she looks at a problem. She'll work with you to quantify or qualify what is exactly the problem, and then suggest ways that you can fix it. She inspired me to figure out how to fit M/s into my day, everyday, and it has been life changing.
Amelia
Registration
Seats in the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive are limited, and due to overwhelming interest, they’re likely to go quickly. Apply to reserve your spot today.
Early Bird
$760
Save 20% Until September 17th
Payment plan available
Regular Registration
$950
Until October 18th
Payment plan available
Your personality, your style, your class, your education, and your amazing ability to give and communicate. You are a treasure my dear. A treasure.
TexasGinger
Have more questions? Here are more answers!
What is the location of this intensive?
The Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive will be conducted entirely online, hosted in a private Zoom room that is based in California in the Pacific Time Zone. Attendees are welcome to join from anywhere in the world that has reliable internet access.
Who is this for? Can anyone sign up?
This intensive is designed for those who live or have lived in the world as women and want to claim their dominance, including trans women and non-binary people who resonate with femdom identity.
All experience levels are all welcome. Submissives and cis-men are not allowed at this event.
The Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive is a highly curated event to ensure the best experience for everyone who attends.
What’s the intensive like?
A fun, deep-dive into understanding your own Dominant Self! The days are full of concretely useful information, group discussion, engaging storytelling and more. We take stretch breaks to keep you moving; you’ll be surprised at how fast the time goes. Read this article for more info!
What if I’ve already attended your shorter femdom class?
The ninety-minute or two-hour classes* Kali teaches online and at conferences barely scratch the surface of developing and supporting your dominant self. In the short format, there is little time for Kali to answer questions or share very much personalized info.
With the two-day intensive format, we’ll have significantly more time to get to the heart of what you need to have successful, powerful, connective D/s and kink experiences.
What if I can't afford the intensive?
I occasionally teach a 2-hour Intro to Authentic FemDom class. The class will give you an excellent overview of the concepts. Follow me on Eventbrite to receive class announcements.
What should I wear? Should I bring anything?
The day is educational, so there is no need to dress in fetish fashion. Wear comfortable clothing, and since you’re at home, shoes are optional! Feel free to keep any special snacks or items you need to be comfortable at your fingertips. We’ll be taking breaks frequently, but of course, you’re welcome to take a break whenever you need.
Is there a payment plan?
Yes! Once you are approved to attend, you are welcome to pay in one or two (depending on when you register). There is NO additional fee for choosing the payment plan. The final installment will be due by October 18, 2025
What will I get out of this?
Excellent question! This is definitely a case for the old saying, “You’ll get out what you put in.” If you fully participate — approach the discussions with openness and bring your most curious self to the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive — you can make dramatic growth in your erotic dominance journey. Then you have to apply what you learn!
Everyone benefits differently, but regardless, you will walk away with a practical, innovative, and detailed picture of your emotional and aesthetic approach to dominance, along with a ton of ideas for how to put your freshly empowered dominance into play in your real life adventures and relationships.
Are refunds available?
A refund (minus a $350 deposit) is available until thirty days before the event. No refunds within thirty days of the event. Your ticket can potentially be transferred to another attendee (with Kali’s approval) up to seven days before the event.
Will you be doing this intensive again?
Possibly, but who knows what the future brings! If I do, it will be quite awhile until your next opportunity and the price typically goes up after the first year. Seize the day!