Ask The HeadMistress: Dominant Guilt

Q: Sometimes after I dominate my partner, I feel guilty and worried that they didn’t really like what I did. What should I do to feel more confident?
A: Both male and female dominants might feel ‘badly’ for being so powerful or so sadistic. Make sure to communicate and ensure consent before the session. The Top has to be able to trust that that the bottom wouldn’t ask or consent to anything they don’t really want. And don’t forget ‘Top Aftercare’, it’s important for both players to reassure each other that a good time was had by all.