Fabulous class! Great info delivered with enthusiasm. I loved all the practical content & examples [giving me] ideas to build off of. Great emphasis on the myth of D/s versus the reality & how to communicate to keep things interesting without dropping roles. I will definitely recommend your classes!
“Thank you for a great [Authentic Domination] class last night. I identify as a submissive and found the insights into the Dominants views very helpful. I feel I walked away with new tools to help with better communication and understanding in my relationships.” – Ms Mode
“Thank you for your class at IMsL; I thoroughly enjoyed it. I’d never been to a Humiliation/Degradation class before, so I really learned a lot. The most interesting part was learning about different levels/intensities of play in the spectrum, and all the options that were available.” – Cricket
“You are a veritable treasure trove of information combined with a stand up comic!”
– Goddess Thora
“Thanks for all your delightful energy–I attended your sexual humiliation class on Sunday and was moved to tears in some very unexpected ways. I really appreciate how you unpacked the whys of shame–it made me think about my own kink kernels and helped me connect to some parts of myself I hadn’t nourished in a long time.”
“Thank you once more for the [coaching] sessions we had. More than anything they helped me to understand all the wonderful possibilities I have as a Ma’am!”
“That was the best presentation, with the best command of an audience, with the best back and forth [with the audience] that I’ve seen across both vanilla and kink worlds in 40 years! An awesome presentation!”
What a wonderful, dynamic and powerful presentation at Dark Odyssey! We are absolutely going to get your book and workbook. Your experience is very valuable and we found it immediately helpful.
Wishing you well,
Hi Princess Kali,
Thank you so much for the wonderful class on humiliation yesterday evening. It was very educational and entertaining (your stories were hilarious!). I look forward to reading your book Enough to Make You Blush and any other books you write in the future.
Have a great rest of your week,
“I really enjoyed your insights and you are funny and engaging. Also, I really liked your story about the guy with the small dick fantasy. I thought it was amazing how you supported him when his fantasy exploded in his face. He could’ve easily walked away torn and depressed but you were there to catch his fall. Thanks for your good work!”
“Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, wit and general awesomeness. I’m still a real newb in the area of kinky practice, and I still don’t know where it’s gonna take me, but the subject of humiliation/degradation is something I’ve been needing to address and your class laid a really solid foundation for that. So thank you!”
“I’ve been in the kink scene for about four years, and attended quite a few conventions and classes. “Becoming a Sexually Dominant Woman” by Princess Kali has been by far one of the most influential of them all. Princess Kali taught me to embrace the dominant side of myself, rather than fall into the trap of believing that being an assertive woman means being “bitchy.” This class quite literally changed my life, both in the bedroom and at work, where I’ve learned to stop being apologetic for having an opinion. I highly recommend this class!
“Wow. I don’t know what you said to my Sir (Kpower) during your workshop at Eagle Leather last week but she came home with ideas and motivation to play and has had me spaced out for days. Thank you!
That continued after we came to your Training a Service Submissive yesterday. We loved your style, information and humor. Lots of fun! :-) I only wish we could make it today, or that you were doing more sessions. We’ll keep an eye out for your return.” – teo–K (Oz Kink Fest)
From the class feedback forms at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2014
- Loved Kali’s comments about not liking rope bondage. It can be nice to feel affirmed that I’m not the only one that likes mental bondage.
- I don’t know if I want to BE you or be humiliated by you!
- SHE WAS AWESOME. If I wasn’t interested in the topic I’d still go to hear her speak.
- Loved it!
- She’s Awesome!
- It was entertaining and hilarious. Shay & Stefano should watch out b/c their “Vegas Act” has some serious competition.
- Princess Kali, you are Fucking Amazing! Thanks for the girl-boners.
- Bring back her Lazy Dom class. I want all Kali all day.
- Your workshops were fantastic! Thank you for giving so much usable information.
“Your personality, your style, your class, your education, and your amazing ability to give and communicate. You are a treasure my dear. A treasure.” – TexasGinger
“Thank you so much for sharing your experiences, knowledge, and glee! I was positively overwhelmed by your humiliation class. You were able to put the subject in such a loving and good light that I felt ok accepting it in myself.” – The Loving One
What a treat tonight was. I found your class very instructional and it opened my mind to some new concepts and thoughts towards role-play.
[Roleplay] is something that doesn’t come naturally for a lot of us. Your repetition of some basic tools to get through a scene was very helpful.
As a top/D I particularly like how you made it okay to be in a position of receiving sensation and still be in a dominant role.”
– Sir Jax Sir
“I thought your seminar yesterday was amazing.
Your message on focus, using words and struggle to reinforce the bondage, and approaching play as a multi-sensory exploration was fantastic. I will use many of the ideas with my pet, you can be sure.
“As someone who has been super-kinky my whole life, I’ve always had a hidden part of myself that I was ashamed of. In the last few years, I’ve grown more and more accepting of who I am and I just wanted to say that your talk meant a lot to me. You’re a fantastic speaker, very funny, and just a great person in general. I hope that one day, I may be as confident in myself as you are in yours.”
– a student from the inaugural Stanford Kardinal Kink presentation
“Thank you so much for a wonderful fun and informative class. I really enjoyed how animated and creative you were. I will very much be on the look out for more.of your classes in the future! I really appreciated how engaged you were and offered me as a participant a chance to ask questions and share experiences. I also enjoyed how personal you were and shared your own experiences and stories. Thank you so much again for a wonderful evening. I look forward to seeing your wonderful face again!”
“Hi there. Just wanted to briefly write that I really enjoyed your talk on testing boundaries/limits, and to thank you for spending the time to share your insights.
Yours has been one of the more entertaining and engaging classes at the Citadel, in my opinion. A lot of the hosted talks, while certainly packed with great information, tend to feel like lectures. Yours was different; you sought interactivity with the rest of us. That was awesome.”
“I recently had the pleasure of attending Princess Kali’s Workshop for Dominant Females. I was struck by Kali’s enthusiasm, energy and insight. It’s clear that she is very well-versed in her subject matter, and she has the rare ability to communicate and teach what she knows. I will happily attend any workshop or seminar that Kali teaches in the future.”
“Kali is a fantastic educator. Not only is she a talented speaker with a great sense of humor, but she’s also a presenter who gives her audience exactly what they want: insightful, practical advice that they can put to immediate use.”
– Kristen Stubbs, Ph.D
“Princess Kali is always a funny, engaging speaker. Many people can do that. But what makes Princess Kali most valuable, and such a resource to the community, is the many, many ways she looks at a problem. She’ll work with you to quantify or qualify what is exactly the problem, and then suggest ways that you can fix it. She inspired me to figure out how to fit M/s into my day, everyday, and it has been life changing.”
“Princess Kali is an awesome presenter, she makes her points clear and concise and retouches over everything as she goes that allows for her points to sink in and stay vivid. Being in her class at FFF#38 was a pleasure, she handled all questions in a concise manner, without allowing them to sidetrack the main points of the class, and really made the material strike home to those in the class like myself.”
“I have been fortunate enough to attend 2 of Princess Kali’s workshops. Both classes were very informative, well planned out and educational. I have found Princess Kali to be an exceptional speaker, thoroughly engaging and knowledgable and really a pleasure to watch and listen to. She has a way of captivating an audience’s attention while being interactive and humorous with them at the same time. They are always a pleasure to attend and look forward to learning more from her in the future. She is truly my favorite presenter at the NELA Fetish Flea and Fair.”
“Thank you for your presentation and presence at the meeting. I am new in the kink world and I am loving exploring the exchange of power and play. And thank you for reminding folks that a sense of playfulness incorporated into your kink is important!
“I’ve attended several Princess Kali classes and have also demo’d for her. What stays with me is Princess Kali’s intelligence, imagination, capacity for empathy and above all, authenticity. ”
“When I first saw Princess Kali in an educational setting, she was juggling a small multi-submissive circus at the Fetish Flea in Boston. Whilst balancing on a trampling fetishist in her sky-high heels, Princess Kali whipped, directed, and teased her crew of subs, demonstrating to the audience how a single Dominant could successfully play with multiple people at once. I was struck by Kali’s clear articulation, infectious humor, and ability to share her masterful understanding of BDSM power play dynamics in a way that was compelling and accessible. If Princess Kali is ever teaching in your town, don’t miss her.”
– Savannah Sly
Mistress Bianca and I have attended a number of classes held by Princess Kali, during the many years of appearances at the Fetish Flea market in Providence, RI. We both were engulfed by her charm and her creativeness in her teachings and attitude. She is a great dynamic presenter who also provides the class, with her willing subs to show her techniques to the class with.
“My wife and I had the pleasure of sitting in Princess Kali’s role playing class at Fetish Con this past weekend. The class was informative and interesting and some points I know will add to our fun. However, we would sit in on the same class again solely for the speaker alone. The Lovely Princess Kali in a school girl Kink Academy uniform was funny, sexy, and held our interest for an hour and a half. She was able to present the information along with specific examples and stories and be tremendously entertaining the entire time. If you have the chance to sit in on an event she is involved in, we would really suggest making it a can’t miss.
– Mister Jordan
I wanted to thank you for seriously not taking yourself seriously. Nice to see some people out there just plain old having a good time. Your talk really got me thinking, and freed me from some traps. Things were great before, but now I got some new ideas, and just the gleam in my eye about the new ideas got my toy so excited she’s begging me to come home early this weekend.