+ There are three major levels of play: Embarrassment, Humiliation, and Degradation.
+ You can’t use an action as humiliation if the person does not find it humiliating! This kind of psychological play is extremely personalized.
+ Intention is the difference between erotic humiliation & abusive behavior. This is not something to do when angry & the ultimate goal should be a feeling of love & support for the submissive.
+ Recognize that some humiliation fantasies should stay in our minds & NOT be acted out, and that’s ok.
+ Use a deck of index cards to write down words & phrases that turn you on so you can be inspired while you play. Both the dominant and the submissive can & should contribute ideas.
+ Kink Academy has quite a few videos regarding humiliation
+ My first book Enough To Make You Blush: An Introduction to Erotic Humiliation was recently released